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(2:20) Will you include some of your or your coach’s infield video in the near future? With the breakdowns will be fantastic. (Like in VGA) (4:01) In game, how to solidify and internalize a new belief (relating to women) that goes against what the mainstream has been teaching us about relationships and women? (11:13) It’s hard to learn from infield videos. Many concepts are too advanced for me. Should I just absorb what I can understand now, and watch again in the future? (14:31) Can you elaborate more about absolute and relative value? How to convey them? (20:47) What are some recommendations for Long Distance Relationship, she’s abroad and I cannot travel but she can? Send her only picture updates? Face time? Liking posts? Comment on her stories? (24:48) I am afraid if I break rapport, I may lose the girl. Is that a rational thought? Should I do it anyway just to see if I can get away with it? (30:27) After a few sets, I can get in a “high“ state. Girls asked me a few times if I am on drugs. I was actually not, just having fun. How should I respond to her? (31:46) What are the possibilities of escalating sexually quickly in a daygame scenario? Could it lead to a one-night stand like nightgame? (34:48) After going through the steps of pulling a girl. When closing a girl she asks you “where are we going?“ and she insists on the same question “why are we going to my place?“ (41:06) What do you say to a girl when escalating physically? When you are telling her a secret, etc.? Sometimes it feels forced and I don’t want it to seem obvious. (42:13) Talking about frame control when you say it’s best to an error on the positive side than being too careful of not falling off your frame. What do you mean by positive? (44:59) But it’s not congruent if you say I hate you or you are pushing her away. (46:47) In the student infield, you told him that it’s okay to take on a cocky frame in the open. Can being cocky/arrogant be a turn-off sometimes and how? (53:05) What is the maximum relationship number we can effectively manage? (56:56) Some girls reject the premise after the opening. What can I do before premise (after open) to increase the percentage? (1:00:12) What kind of frame would you give us an example to make a girl your long-term girlfriend? what kind of messages, pictures, and conversation topics would you have and what idea of inception would you create in the girl? (1:03:35) Is there a difference in your bio in online dating if you’re looking for a long-term relationship vs hookups? (1:06:21) You said that your mindset when disqualifying a girl or doing push-pulls is that you do them because “it’s the right thing to do“. How to know if you need more of those things in the interaction? When is the right time to disqualify (generally speaking)? (1:09:33) After watching the Student Infield, I feel like learning 3-5 lines for each phase would solve most issues people have. If people learned a few high-value premises lines (and sprinkled them through the interaction, until she accepts premise), and a few evaluation & narrative lines... Well, the interaction would move forward quite easily as long as you pass shit tests. Thoughts? I feel like we make this more complicated than it should be (e.g. memorizing a total of 20 lines, and saying them congruently, at the right time) (1:13:35) Follow-up question about Long Distance Relationships. Asking her directly “ when are you coming back? I want to see you again“ would that be giving my power away or is it ok. This is about the girl I had sex with already and says she misses me. (1:15:49) Any escalation (physical or verbal) stack you would recommend before going for the kiss, as an intermediate? Grabbing the hand? Touching her hair? You say physical escalation is the least important of all modes of escalation, but I feel like it is absolutely necessary before going for the kiss. (1:19:31) Follow up on the closing question: what if there are no good bars or places to hang out other than my apartment in my neighborhood, which is, unfortunately, the case for me? (1:21:20) Any tips on owning your insecurities? Sometimes I feel like I am at a huge disadvantage and cannot win despite having them. (ie not having the typical things that trigger attraction in women). (1:25:57) Last weekend during all my interactions, the girl was interested in the beginning. But she lost interest midway and moved away. And then ignored me later. My guess was I was being too needy and wasn’t saying anything interesting. How do I spark attraction and keep her interested? (1:30:44) I remember you talking about how taking a cocky frame is an unlosable situation. Something about the girl either accepting your frame or shit testing you on it, and then you get to pass the test and your frame is established all
