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Weekly Q&A #5 — 8/22/21 Date: 8/22/21 (1:05) If a girl is responsive over text but whenever u try to make plans she always comes up with some excuse, what would be the high-value thing to do in this case? (4:35) How do you convey to a girl that you’re part of the “secret society“? How is it different from conveying that you’re a win for her? (Follow up from last week) (8:52) How do you manage in the same area to close so many girls 23 without being seen for the previous girls? Every time I get a number, I’m afraid to open in the same area. (14:16) Best way to sleep with a girl as quickly as possible (online or cold approach) without being too pushy? I personally don’t like taking the girl on multiple dates. (22:05) I’m 20 (soon 21) and is it ok to open some girls that could be like 15-16 that you don’t know if they’re 15 or 17. How do you handle this feeling of they’re younger? (27:43) What are the main things I should focus on to solidify in her head that I’m a Lover and not a Provider? Is her perception of you always something in your control? (34:00) What’s your day game mindset? Every interaction feels like a constant frame battle and trying to prove you’re higher value than her. Especially with hotter girls. (35:13) Is it possible to get timestamps by questions for past Q/A videos? So that I can watch relevant parts rather than the whole thing. (36:09) How should I measure my success as a newbie? I’m too attached to the outcome, and I feel like I’m not making any progress when I get negative reactions from girls. (39:18) What’s the best way to improve things like eye contact, tonality, vibe. Since those things determine whether or not you’ll get a good response on the open. (43:07) There are certain things in game that I just do without understanding why. (I.e being polarizing, giving her emotional spikes). How to learn the ’whys’ in game? (46:09) Sometimes I’m blocked when thinking about an open. What would your default open be and what do you say after you open? I run out of things to say after the open. (50:05) What to do when she gives you a negative response to you escalating on her (physically or verbally). How do you recover from that and try again later? (52:45) Since being unavailable is attractive, how available should you be (minimum) if you want to maintain a casual relationship with a hot girl, and keep her invested? (56:51) How important is being a girl’s physical type in generating sexual attraction? (1:01:07) How do you convey that you sleep with a lot of girls but don’t? (1:02:45) If you’re riding a long time in a particular city and have too many matches on the dating app to go back and forth with. Is it a good idea to copy and paste one big paragraph with a number close at the end? What should that one message contain? (1:05:35) Any advice on gaming at the Las Vegas pool parties? (1:07:34) So up to when is it enough to give a girl enough facts about your life? (1:08:53) Any advice to deal with nervousness when approaching in day game? (1:10:04) I heard the girl starts rationalizing why she hasn’t slept with you if you take too long to sleep with her. (1:11:57) Tips on gaming younger girls plus the inner game of it. Not worrying about being judged. 18 years old, 20 years old girl, etc. (1:14:28) Any tips on gaming in college? In my case in a city not in campus life. (1:16:34) I’m 38 and in my mind, girls who are 18 to 25 are less likely to date me, am I correct? (1:19:14) What is it like to have a normal conversation, and what’s not to do in a normal conversation to reduce mistakes? Can you give an example? (1:21:15) (Vancouver) What venues are better for day game? (1:23:24) Any tips on getting better at inserting more premise at the beginning of a set? (1:25:11) Can you put together a list of recommended reads? (1:26:52) Is it good to create routines and have routines for different types of girls? (1:27:37) I am cheap and busy - any tips on making old school mystery style dates work ( just have girls join for errands stuff you are already doing etc)? (1:28:38) I’ve never cum during sex due to fear of having kids. Any physiological and/or psychological tips to help me bust? (1:31:25) Any quick fixes to eliminate self-doubt and stay in a good mood in between sets? Especially after getting rejections. (1:33:30) Is Miami the same as Las Vegas? Do you run the same type of game (more value-less comfort). (1:34:53) What’s your thought on this idea of not chasing girls and focusing on yourself? (1:38:17) What are some examples of evaluation? (1:40:26) In cold approach, how do you game girls so that they don’t come up with “Sorry, I have a boyfriend“? (1:42:12) How do I get a fuck buddy? Sex is usually short.
