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(1:32) I opened a girl in a coffee shop, talked about her tattoos, and teased her, she was positive, but when I went for the number close, she wanted IG. Premise or Comfort? (4:13) Is it a good tactic to use certain words or phrases a girl uses often, so she may think I understand her? (5:28) Any strategies to get yourself to feel more arrogant when using the FAME/FRED technique? (8:02) Why is it harder to sleep with a girl if you only have absolute value and not enough relative value? Can you explain the logic behind it? (10:29) How to genuinely not care what others think about you in set? Especially if it’s preventing you from taking action. It’s hard to fake. (15:10) When is a good time to show similarities with the girl? Such as we both like certain things. (19:34) Is “good game“ an indicator or form of value? What are you sub-communicating to the girl when you are doing a good game? (23:02) How do I get comfortable with sexual tension? (28:12) How to set realistic goals in my game? (31:52) Online dating. What type of message should be used to respond to a slightly positive but low-invested message? (35:32) How can you integrate not drinking alcohol into the game properly (for health/fitness reasons)? Going to dates or doing nightgame without being able to drink seems to restrict some good logistical options, like bouncing to the bar to do shots, trying each other’s drinks, or seeding the pull with that awesome wine that she must absolutely try out. Is this just a cost that I have to deal with? (45:05) I trained myself to open eye contact (daygame), but I end up missing approaches because now I am looking for indicators of interest before doing it. How to break through? (47:40) Can you rate this type of opener: “You look lost”, “You look like your friends abandoned you”, etc. I’ve been trying to work on more direct openers, but often the first thing that comes to my mind is actually to point out that a girl alone at night looks out of place. (50:10) If I get a black t-shirt, will I become advanced? (50:32) Since my game has shifted dramatically, I still have some old habits that are no longer appropriate. What are some ways that I can shift my focus towards evaluation more? I’ve been asking myself what it is that I’m looking for in a girl. Are any other questions I could ask myself? (52:45) Do you recommend a daily track of my own progress? What are some key parameters to keep track of? (57:26) I am a beginner. I have heard from various sources, that by doing and practicing game personality changes. How do “the changes“ happen? Like: - What makes me somebody more fun to be around? - How did I learn to become the leader of a group or the center of attention? (even just among men) (1:03:10) If a girl approaches you and it’s clear she wants to take you home, but it is still very early in the night (10 pm), how long should you stay at the bar before taking her home? (1:16:03) It was 4 am after a concert. I picked her up on the subway. I found out she lived in East Village but I lived in a different neighborhood. I seeded the pull by suggesting getting food. She said nothing was open at this hour. We were in the middle of a conversation and she said this is my stop and that caught me off guard. How would you phrase the pull to get off the train and walk with her to her apartment? (1:07:55) (Live follow-up question) It was not a quick interaction. I met her at the station, we got on the subway and the total time of the interaction probably was more than half an hour. But it was positive enough like she was qualifying, telling me about her story and I was being playful. There was definitely chemistry there. But in the end, I didn’t know how to seed the close because I already knew I lost it at the point she got off the subway. (1:12:47) (Live follow-up question) I don’t pull very often so the first couple of times I do it’s kind of shaky. (1:15:37) (Live Question) I’m 18 and working at Walmart. They have some attractive older women and for some reason, I always get turned down. I usually open with “Hi, what’s up, what are you doing?“ One out of every three, four, maybe five times I get a number and that’s it. They’ve always been flaky. I never get them on a date. What would you recommend for me moving forward? (1:18:47) (Live follow-up question) I can kind of sneak off at a work and do some approaches. So what openers would you recommend? (1:22:31) (Live follow-up question) I mentioned earlier I’m kind of hitting on my work associates. But I’m doing it in a way that is not direct but kind of like building, one day at a time. So when is the perfect time to ask for the number and escalate things forward?
