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Weekly Q&A #1 — 7/25/21 Date: 7/25/21 (0:53) How to transition from an opinion opener? (6:06) How do you get the attention of a girl who is dismissive in the open without looking try-hard or feeling invasive? In particular, the hotter girls. (11:54) How to show a statement of empathy following the open, in a high-value way? Instead of saying something like “I know it’s random and weird but I thought you’re cute“. (15:23) Do you advise beginners to work on themselves (I.e style, get in shape) before going out and talking to girls? To avoid unnecessary ref. experiences of rejections. (19:27) Isn’t the idea of building value or social capital with girls before making a move a low-value mindset? Shouldn’t you assume you’re high value and go for it? (23:38) Can you tell us about your mindsets? (30:02) Push pull method works well for me. I like playing hard to get and make her chase. But how do I escalate? I feel like she’ll just take the validation and run. (33:50) Not making a girl feel slutty is important in game. In 2021 Do you believe it’s still an issue for women in the west? Can we be more direct and honest about sex? (36:41) Is there a difference between having a high value frame and a masculine frame with women? (38:25) How do you be chatty and sociable/carry the burden if you are low energy? (41:53) What’s more important high value or masculine? (44:56) How do you set the tone of a convo with a girl early to establish that you’re here for a good time not a long time? (47:14) Little energy question follow-up. Does the same apply in a groupset or do you have to be the most chatty of the group all the time? (48:33) Some more teasing and flirting is supposed to sincerity? (48:57) What do you do or say after the open before premise? (50:46) I find it difficult to do game or give myself permission to act high value in set because I don’t have the looks. How can I stop feeling incongruent and fake? (59:19) I do well when it’s a one on one situation with a girl but am too anxious to do a set of multiple girls because if one hates me or gives me shit the others will follow. (1:00:53) How do you game a girl if she knows you have a girlfriend? (1:04:09) What creates intrigue? Push-Pull, Evaluation? (1:05:03) In the initial pick up as well as one to involve with a girl, any advice on how to establish the proper setup and boundaries of the relationship in a way that you get exactly what you are looking for i.e friends with benefits probably, etc? (1:06:36) Can you still sleep with a girl if you’re not her type or should I not take it seriously? (1:07:38) Follow up on a group question. One girl’s decision about you may influence theirs. (1:08:20) Could a girl you sleep with know you have a girlfriend? (1:09:34) Do you think there’s a difference between white girls and Asian girls? Or am I just making it up because I am Asian? (1:12:44) What if you’re in an open relationship but want friends with benefits on the side, how do you have that conversation deal with potential objections? (1:14:50) As a beginner, how do you find venues with girls in it for day game? I work from home so I have to be intentional when going out. (1:20:13) Handling groups during day game, what are the key points to keep in mind indifferences versus night game? (1:21:54) Are there any tips for working game into busy schedule work from home culture? (1:23:13) Why do you think the public profile of the pickup community has declined so markedly from the “Golden Age of PUA“ of the early-mid 2000s? (1:24:34) From your experience teaching thousands of men around the world - how real is racial discrimination by the hottest girls against men of minority ethnicities? (1:25:46) How do you bring up topics of relationship in sex if you don’t have much experience any material to reference? (1:28:13) Haven’t received anything about the forum, how do I get on it? (1:29:04) What’s the plan for the Mentorship Program this year?
