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Date: 02/06/22 (0:27) Recap session (1:14) Exercises (1:38) Do you have the name of this exercise? (1:59) Exercise 1 (The girl is oversharing something) (5:05) I got it from Arty’s posts on the forum, and the overshare made me think it’d be a really good answer. (6:58) Exercise 2 (She asked you ’how old are you when you had your first kiss?’) (7:25) Alexander, what was your good answer? (12:09) Using statements is more powerful to open more loops, right? (13:14) What mistakes are guys with high absolute value making that leads them to the friendzone and not get sex? (15:57) Generally speaking, should you drop all forms of formality when interacting with girls? (18:18) I have a good Instagram. How to show it to girls without being needy in live interactions? (19:45) When a girl asks you a question like “what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done“ what’s the best way to answer it? (22:35) When the girl just becomes single, should I take the chance immediately? Otherwise, she may find someone else. (23:57) Reconnected with a shy girl after a year. Was chasing and too gamy, turned her off. Responded well after I said happy new year. How to proceed differently now? (25:17) How to deal with jealousy in a relationship if there are guys trying with her? (27:25) How to stop playing guessing games? I improved from asking questions, but now it feels like I’m doing some psychic cold read shit on her and it isn’t going well. (28:27) What percentage is reasonable for flakes on dates? (31:42) Inception exercise (32:09) Premise exercise? To avoid getting the immediate “I have a boyfriend response“. (32:27) I am new. I need a short training before the exercise starts. (32:45) Push Pull Command Exercise (34:27) First Picture for Push Pull Command Exercise (40:58) Reason/Point of the Exercise (42:03) Second Picture for Push Pull Command Exercise (45:17) Third Picture for Push Pull Command Exercise (47:57) Fourth Picture for Push Pull Command Exercise (51:28) You said something is very Arty game. Can you explain what that means? I’ve followed his advice on Evaluation/connecting in the past and it got me a maybe 20% boost for that phase. (54:10) How to convey high value and man-to-woman in the baseline versus in the plot line? (57:12) If the girl sounds butthurt, is giving signs her frame is weakening relative to yours or if it’s difficult to keep her attention, are these potentially signs I’m being too harsh with Evaluating? Talking about a feisty Princess archetype who is being difficult early and later what I described happens. (1:00:20) (Follow up on relative value) Isn’t having high absolute value a good enough reason for her to chase by default? Since relative value is about “who’s chasing who“ in the interaction. You said girls tend to chase the validation of guys with high absolute value. (1:04:25) Let’s say the Happy New Year is the Chinese New Year few days ago. (1:04:52) I noticed guys who have a “reputation“ of sleeping with the hottest girls tend to attract other girls in the “lover“ frame. Why is that? and do you recommend having such reputations to get more friends with benefits? (1:07:11) Is the energy supposed to be high during the Narrative phase? Like as high as Premise when they laugh or respond well to something polarizing or during Evaluation where they’re qualifying heavily and chasing. (1:12:13) Is it helpful to just go “have fun“ and reset the mind, when doing game for a few days, feeling like a chore? (1:14:22) Can you still get rejection if you directly tell her this is a man to woman conversation like “I want to find out if I like you“ without fully telling her you like her, would still get an I have a boyfriend response? (1:16:52) How to keep everyday night texting man to a woman instead of routine logistics like family friend zone chats. (1:17:52) What is your opinion on the idea of using “backhanded compliments“ as a technique in set? Is it not as effective in set as the other ones? (1:19:03) I can tell the main events of most of my stories in one, if not two sentences. Should I be looking to tell more stories, some elaborating on stories previously told, or other short stories like that? (1:20:52) I know I asked this question yesterday about a girl’s blueprint to have sex with a man only after getting along half a year. In case I will have this situation in the future again, is there any way to turn this around? (1:22:52) What was that saying again, Todd? The map is not the ______ The menu’s not the meal? (1:24:05) Maybe a stupid question, but establishing man to woman premise and sexualizing or bringing up the two of you having sex are two separate things, yes? So it’s not a surprise if bringing up sex is a l
