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Weekly Q&A #3 — 8/8/21 Date: 8/8/21 (2:53) What’s the best way to increase your SMV? (As beginner) (10:24) What does “comfort“ mean in the context of casual dating/hookups? Is it showing her that you’re a potential bf, or that she won’t be in physical danger with you? (12:34) How to deal with a flaky girl, and when should I give up? (17:34) What advice would you give to someone going through a dry spell following lots of success with women? Chasing the results you used to get is very frustrating. (23:10) Where do we draw the line between being “sexually bold and direct with your Intention, and coming off “thirsty“? Tips for beginners who are struggling with that? (27:18) Would it be incorrect to say that average or below average looking men should avoid being direct with their intention, especially with hotter girls? (32:20) Do you have recommendations for the best places to meet 30-year-olds? (34:44) How to break through the invisible barrier of hot girls being polite but not emotionally engaging in the conversation? (37:35) Should I hold off on-premise until I’ve established enough value? (39:17) If a girl refuses to be “non-exclusive“ and objects to you seeing other girls or have threesomes, is it because you’re not high value enough to her? (41:44) Is it actually paradoxically EASIER to pick up 9s and 10s (compared to 7s and 8s) because more men are intimidated by them and hence don’t approach 9s & 10s? (44:36) Do you notice a big difference between long hair vs short hair? (46:00) Gaming in Los Angeles, did your mindset shift or change to game in LA? (48:18) I hate pursuing after flake, she’s clearly just seeking attention in your opinion? (52:15) I’d rather be a complete beginner than go through a dry spell. (54:18) What humor can be effective in game that could be a value, personality, topics, and formats, etc.? (56:28) What can I do to make the girl see me in a more sexual light inset? (56:50) How would you go about preparing for these challenges? (57:52) I’m beginning the tease and push pull. I wanna start instigating shit tests. What’s the best mentality and process to know how to pass any shit test? (59:50) How can I learn group theory and where to start? (1:05:23) What’s the most common reason for el amor? (1:07:12) Gaming moves vs good conversation. What are the right proportion? (1:07:37) I find that on a busy street (next to a subway station) stopping the girl from the front is kinda awkward. Should I let her pass, catch up, and then talk? (1:10:01) Is value into the void try hard how to balance between being try hard and persistent with a high-value frame. (1:11:14) Any tips on gaming with a wing women gaming for threesomes? (1:15:04) How to identify when to do more gaming moves or be normal? (1:15:30) The things you can do to solidify numbers? (1:16:40) How to know I am lacking value or comfort? (1:18:15) Any favorite day game spots to find 9s and 10s in New York City? (1:19:10) What do you recommend starting day game in smaller cities? (1:19:48) Do you know good people who are very good at storytelling? (1:21:12) I always held the belief that in order for a girl to sleep with you, it’s “necessary“ to subtly convey to her that you’re seeing other girls. Thoughts? (1:21:53) There’s a video on Youtube where a girl who’s tanning in a bikini. She repeatedly says she has a boyfriend. What were you trying to achieve, just to find a female friend or you were hoping she would cheat on her boyfriend? (1:23:38) How to identify fake IOI’s from girls who are attention-seeking? (1:25:08) Any tips on handling different political beliefs? How can I hold the frame and not argue or best handle in general? (1:28:33) So following up on fake IOI’s. A lot of times, girls will ask questions and banter in texting but refuse dates. (1:31:50) I just say I don’t drink but I appreciate the offer then try to carry on but they were just trying to get free drinks because a guy bought them drinks all night they just gave him a snap and ditched him laughing (1:33:10) They’re enjoying the entertainment I provide but do not necessarily want to date me. (1:35:39) What are ways or things you can do to enhance your overall happiness in life outside of game? (1:38:05) Are there tips on how to have a stronger frame in general?
