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Date: 01/30/22 (0:15) Exercise (If by X you mean Y, then Z) (0:56) The girl calls you arrogant (2:42) You are very forward (4:57) This is going very fast (6:42) The thing is that we are strangers. (9:18) Do you still plan to do a bonus final webinar for VGA? (9:39) What’s the purpose of getting investment from the girl throughout the interaction, and how to do that? (11:35) In a recent video, you said “occasionally being absent“ can cause a girl to become obsessed. How to know when you are taking it too far that it has the opposite effect? (14:45) When using the freeze out technique, sometimes I’m worried she will take it as disinterest, and her pride/ego will get in the way of her chasing. What to do? (18:48) There are so many cute Asian girls in Asian supermarkets in the late afternoon. They seem shy, and with people around, what’s the best way to open up? For example? (24:28) Sometimes I skip approaching when there are people around, for example on the street. I feel that they would judge me or start looking. How do I change this? (29:50) I Instagram closed a customer who was vibing with me by saying “let’s talk more about art“ friendly premise. Should I change the premise on text? Or on a meet-up? (33:10) Can we expect more student infield? What about us reviewing some of your own infield as a class? (35:17) I demand student infield of the guy skipping over to the girl and taking her home. (35:50) Inception Exercises (36:50) Girl in a group and you want to take her to the bar. (37:40) This would be really blueprint and calibration-dependent. (44:49) To do this from a blank canvas is really really really hard without any context. (48:16) What if she notices the inception and calls you on it? (49:38) I guess to make the inception technique work you need to feel like you’re the hot girl in the situation. (49:59) In the end, there still needs to be some form of leading, right? Cause it’s unlikely she grabs me and leads me away from her friends in a lot of cases. (50:20) What other phases I can use besides “I’ll let you.“? (50:49) Wouldn’t say “I’ll let you take me on a date“ risk coming off too cocky and getting a negative response? (51:54) Can we have two more examples? (52:17) Sample: Taking her home (52:54) So your choice of words has a lot to do with the inception technique. (53:18) I’m explicitly talking about “my place“ in the close? (56:16) Can you answer this question in the most esoteric, “advanced point of view you’re not gonna see anywhere else“ way? How do I react when the girl qualifies herself hard or just well enough to where she’s making an obvious effort? Is it relevant if she’s qualifying herself on exactly what I’ve described I like? In the past, if I lead with value and she qualified, rewarding her has worked quite well, or teasing her gently. But in instances where I shit test or disqualify her if I try to bring her back in immediately after she qualifies, I kill all the tension or sometimes make it so she doesn’t know exactly what to say. My push pulls on the other hand make it so she feels defeated (positive polarity is not redemptive enough and makes her either quit or the value gap becomes unreal). What I mean by hard qualifying is, it’s clear I have greater value within the set and she is chasing me unreservedly. (59:23) I’m struggling to come up with an opener for mixed sets. At this point, I feel confident that I have good/engaging openers for girl sets (nice push/pulls), but when I see a mixed set nothing particularly good comes to mind. Any canned mixed set openers? (1:04:57) Is the “yes ladder“ works in game as in sales? (1:05:53) Sometimes I open my target in a 2,3 or 4 set, make eye contact with the friends at some point on the open and then they smile and pull up their phone (they start ignoring me). I can say some quite biting premise lines which get good reactions and the friends still don’t react, at all. But as things pick up with my target I start panicking because I think the friends might sink me, like out of the blue e.g. because I haven’t been forced to engage them yet. That’s usually the moment I force interaction with the friends and, with 100% consistency, the set goes backward, if it doesn’t blow up completely. What do you think is going on here? (1:09:41) Regarding disinterest, I once dated a girl who was very competitive and would try to out-disinterest me. This created a bad feedback loop. How would you handle these situations? (1:12:02) A vague question if you find your perfect ten and you feel as tho the relationship will fail not because of anything logistical just the person leaving or cheating on you for someone else how do you go about that? In other words, how do you have a faithful relationship?
