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Weekly Q&A #4 — 8/15/21 Date: 8/15/21 (1:42) Whenever I make statements about a girl, instigate or tease her, I can get her to be interested enough to talk to me, but how do I turn that into attraction? (5:56) I know in the past you made a video explaining why funny guys don’t get laid, but some say making a girl laugh arouses her. Helps her not to be logical. Thoughts? (8:59) Can you get results if your emotions are not aligned with your actions (I.e not feeling enough, confident, high value) without faking? It’ll be a bad set anyways. (11:39) I’m struggling to have a sexual vibe. I’ve always been perceived as this “proper guy“, whenever I try to be sexual, I get shamed by women, advice? (18:26) As a young man who wants to work towards financial freedom but also work on my dating life, should I focus & commit to one thing at a time? How to balance that? (24:43) What’s the best way to deal with a girl’s “b**ch shield“ early on in the interaction without being try-hard? (When she’s being rude and standoff-ish) (28:53) How important is sexual performance (does she come or not) when establishing an FWB type of relationship and/or keeping a girl around when it’s casual? (31:42) Do YOU personally have open relationships with women, and if so are you OK with them sleeping with other guys? How do you deal with that? (38:27) Is it true that after having sex with a woman on a first date reduces chances of seeing her again as it makes her feel slutty? (40:36) How important is external validation to build a strong frame and inner game? (44:03) Could you put together daily progressive assignments that keep you accountable on your progress? (eg. today approach x girls, or improve this aspect, etc.) (44:38) Dating 8-10s online but I feel that my online game is better than my in person date game (due to covid) Can you use the same lines from online as in person? (45:44) Do you have any tips on how to convert temporary spiked emotion into actual logical confirmation and investment for a date to be solidified in the girl’s mind? (48:00) What do you recommend for online closing date post number close first messages? Just straight logistics? Like “when are you free?“/“What beer do you like?“ etc? (49:40) How to understand frames better? What should we be looking for and how to set them better? (54:47) What were the useful frames to have with the girl from the previous question about making a joke? (56:00) English is not my mother tongue I did a few performances on zoom theater last year to improve my English. I consider the improvisational comedy classes. Is it a good idea to improve all these things simultaneously? (57:10) You can’t make money and hook up with girls unless it’s your job. (1:02:11) These people building a business and working on game at the same time is nearly impossible. (1:04:05) Opening practice progressions for those of us with good date game (lots of dates from apps and social circle) but very little experience cold approaching. (1:05:33) What can I do to get a positive response on the open and avoid having a lot of shit tests and b*tch shields? (1:07:26) How to set up and close on dates and where to take girls to actually get better logistics? (1:09:10) Few opens where target doesn’t engage or stays blank like I’m gaming the wall. How can I try to gain intrigue efficiently from the right girl in these cases? (1:11:05) Daygame. Should I learn how to approach girls who are by themselves first before learning to approach groups or learn both at the same time? (1:14:57) What should a hook on an online dating profile look like? Can you give an example for reference? (1:16:30) How you would explain girls who have guys in their friend zone? (1:19:35) If you have a picture for an online dating profile that shows a high-value lifestyle but does not show your body in a good light should you use it? (1:22:06) How would you make progressively harder exercise to get better at setting the frame? (1:23:32) How should I deal with cockblocks during night game? Like when her friends take her away. Even when a girl responds in a positive way, handling cockblocks is a problem. (1:25:48) Do you have any tips on how to convert temporary spiked emotion into actual logical confirmation and investment for a date to be solidified in the girl’s mind? (1:26:46) In the past you’ve mentioned the concept called the secret society, can you briefly talk about it and how it’s relevant to game? (1:28:16) How to tell someone is in your frame? (1:28:55) What would be your angular frame when you’re traveling a lot and staying just one to three days in each city or country? (1:30:27) For online dating is it okay to fudge your age by a few years? (1:31:36) Any tips on screening before approaching? (1:33:04) Is there a difference between attraction arousal?
