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Weekly Q&A #13 — 10/17/21 Date: 10/17/21 (0:55) How to answer a girl’s questions when she’s qualifying you? Is disqualifying yourself a good strategy to avoid being in her frame in this case? (4:53) Can you explain the difference between “indicator of value“ and “proof of value“? What is considered proof of value? (7:30) How to deal with the jealousy of GF being promiscuous in the past? Considering I don’t have the same amount of sexual experience as hers. (11:26) As a beginner, If you’re too afraid to escalate on her, is it better to just let her escalate on you by provoking her enough with the teasing, reverse psychology, etc? (14:08) How to stop feeling like a lesser man, when I have spent much time learning game while the naturals/AFCs don’t have to do anything to get girls? (19:36) How to get a girl you hooked up with to introduce you to her hot friends? How to frame that? I didn’t find an answer in the rel. manifesto about this in particular. (22:47) Are there scenarios where a girl will sleep with you if she feels ur lower value than her? I give up easily on sets where she isn’t being reactive or chasing me. (24:44) How much premise is good enough? I often feel like I haven’t established a premise overtly enough to communicate to her that I just want to have sex, nothing serious. (26:34) How to know if you need to create more comfort in set before pulling? What does “comfort“ mean in this context? (31:05) How to plant the thought of sex in her mind early on in a subtle way, so it doesn’t come off as a surprise when I escalate on her? (36:14) How to get girls who seem cold at first to be reactive to you? I usually just move on because I don’t want to feel like I’m bothering her by staying in set. (41:02) I heard you say it’s better to convey high value traits that are congruent with you, my question is do the 9s and 10s respond more to some traits in particular? (44:19) When you said we need to follow up numbers. What is the limit of that? How many times should I follow up with a girl that is not answering the invitation or flaking? (47:42) Got a girl home and closed her. The problem was, I couldn’t stay hard for too long. We had sex 3 times in 3 hours. The first time, I came too soon. The second time, I couldn’t stay hard for more than 10 mins. The third time, I came in 5 mins. The girl was having performance anxiety too and she couldn’t orgasm even with the magic wand. While leaving my house, she got pissed and unmatched me in the morning. I am 36. Not staying hard has been my problem consistently for the last 4 years even though my testosterone is towards the high end and the doctor says there is no problem. Do you suggest any pill, exercise, or diet for this? Sorry for the long question. (50:38) In the last webinar, you broke down a text where the guy sent her a photo and a text saying he should’ve sent the middle finger. Can you explain why that response was good? Wouldn’t that create more shit tests? (52:16) How to friendzone a girl? Without just ignoring her and contacting her less. Or giving her an explanation that I just want to be friends and in the end, she will want to hang out in the future. (53:17) How should a girl feel around you? Should a girl feel too scared to offend you, and walk around eggshells? (54:30) What is a good way to break it off with a girl or indicate that you’re not interested in a relationship with her? (56:35) Should you avoid having this attitude of knocking her off her pedestal with European girls? (59:08) After a day game number close, how long before do you suggest texting the girl for the first time? (1:01:03) Why do you say that most trust fund kids are miserable? Seems like a pretty fun lifestyle. (1:02:41) How to sexualize the conversation without creating discomfort? (1:05:14) Follow up, if a girl you hooked up with has a hot friend, and you want to hook up with both, how to frame it in a way that makes it ok to do that? (1:09:07) I’ve seen guys with no ambitions getting girls like a lot. I believe you once mentioned being ambitious is important in being high value. Some guys simply get away with it. What’s going on? (1:11:38) Best places to day game in Miami? (1:12:13) I have been hit on by plenty of women in my life, however, I have trouble reacting, and responding to these. What’s a template when I don’t know how to respond? (1:13:33) Any strategies to eliminate self-doubt in set as a beginner? (1:16:52) Question about how to raise your value. In the System, there are 3 ways to raise your value: 1. Premise Push Pull and In the Negative. This is a way not to lose the value you already have
