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Date: 11/07/21 (2:17) When a girl is evaluating me, what are some ways I can flip the script and evaluate her instead? In a way that’s not reactive. It’s annoying when this happens. (5:45) You said beginners should stick to the “direct approach“. Any tip on how to properly do a direct approach while minimizing the chance of instant rejection? (9:11) On a date, I disqualify (not have sex), girls kiss me hard/touch me/say they’re sexual, but when home, LMR. I tease her for not being able to handle it, but still no go. Why? (11:50) In the VGA, will you provide more formula-style material, instead of exact canned word-for-word material? (12:36) With DTF girls how do you progress things fast while still maintaining sexual tension? (15:17) Is it good to use the you-either-like-me-or-hate-me frame for girls? It’s better than being platonic or boring. (17:24) How to escalate as someone advanced - without giving your power away and how to make a girl escalate on you? (21:17) Why do girls ask if “I’ve been here before“ on a date at a bar? Not sure how to answer because usually, it’s yes. How would you respond to “Have you been here before“? (24:14) Can you give an example of creating sexual tension? It’s hard to do it subtly for a beginner like myself (26:09) How to have some varieties in game so I can get more excited? Doing the same thing, again and again, makes it a chore. (29:30) What do you do if you establish premise and the girl does not receive it well? (i.e. feels even more awkward), and how to be better at premise? (31:38) I’ve slept with over 200 girls with 50% of them being above 7 (8/9/10) yet sometimes I go out/have dates and still suck, how to be more consistent with my skill? (33:51) It means I get LMR a lot, can’t get her to chase, can’t hook. (37:03) I know it’s better to prevent it than get it, but how do you deal with a situation where you qualify a girl, and she avoids it & says things like “I’m boring“ (38:42) It’s genuinely hard to connect with a girl, good topics like travels, adventures, work. But I truly love investing, cooking, fitness, and when I talk about it, it doesn’t work, how to fix it? (42:10) Thoughts on 60-90 minute smoothie or coffee dates for a 1st date instead of a bar? To know quickly if you vibe or not. If you do-to leave her wanting a 2nd date. (46:26) How useful of a tool is compliance when running a set? (48:36) How do you generally respond to the question: “What are you looking for?“ (52:23) What’s a good way to open a mixed set where you are unsure of the relationships between the girls and guys? (54:31) Does the pain of rejection go away after many years in the game? (56:28) How to not let rejections, awkwardness, or negative reactions make you feel ashamed and regret establishing premise and make it man to woman? (1:00:18) Advice on how to approach girls who are walking dogs? Sometimes I bring my own dog with me to the dog park and hit it off with the girl. Is it possible to pull in this case, or should I just go for the number? (1:03:16) How big of a role does your vibe play in game? Is it worth thinking about or should one simply focus on the technical outer game? It seems like your vibe is important, but also that thinking about it too much can create more limiting beliefs and is just another way of chasing a form of “state“. (1:05:37) What is the most important mindset element that leads people to success in game? (1:06:40) Having good opens, ok early premise, first 90 secs.. run into a wall. Go-to lines/formats for creating more attraction or evaluation etc..? (1:08:04) How to maintain a frame of her chasing you throughout the interaction? I’m able to get her to qualify and hold her attention for a brief moment when I deliver a push-pull line and disqualify her, but then gradually lose that frame and she’ll go back to being the way it was before. (1:09:28) I got over approaching anxiety in the past, but then I developed the reputation of the guy who talks to any and every girl. I live in a relatively small city in France, and further on a University campus, and now approach anxiety came back as I really want to play it “subtle“ but I’m afraid of messing things up. What do you suggest to do in this kind of “giant social circle setting“? (1:12:11) In the Nightgame material, the atmosphere in the venue is described as either a club or a very big bar. how would I go about approaching in relatively small bars with tables, some on the street, and not big venues with room to walk around and mingle? (1:13:28) What is your view on drinking during Nightgame in clubs? (1:16:26) Is a loud nightclub where everybody dances, a good environment for game? I tried it but it was very difficult to talk. Any strategies?
