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Date: 05/14/22 (0:20) Lecture topic (0:28) Difference between Inner Game and State (1:12) Reminder for using cameras (1:30) Lecture (1:36) Getting in State Techniques (2:45) Physiology (3:17) Motion changes your emotion (7:30) State is an involuntary function (8:44) Changing your heartbeat directly is in the Advanced Game product (10:07) Actions that can get you in state (13:25) Actions to do in the actual set (19:09) Don’t forget about the Fear of Technology (19:52) Is approaching with the intention of getting rejected a good way to get out of your head? (23:08) Can you talk a bit about inner game not-related to girls, like just improving your self-perception? (26:58) (Live follow-up question) There’s an internet culture with a really simple creed. So the idea is if you win against the odds you’re doing something honorable and great and you’re elevating yourself above the masses. But if you get that same outcome by stacking the odds in your favor, it’s considered shameful or like you’ve embarrassed yourself because you only care about winning and not the aesthetic of it. (30:18) The big thing for me is dealing with rejection. Especially when you think a set has gone really well and then the ghost. How do you not beat yourself up, or overanalyze your mistakes? Like even if you are really good at the game, the rejections are going to outnumber the yes’s. (37:04) I think someone said something similar - to focus on your game-related actions as opposed to getting in state when in the field. (38:26) How to keep having high energy after being rejected for some stupid reason? I can tell myself it’s not my fault but still did not feel good. I knew a girl for a few weeks, and the texting vibe was good. Until I said I don’t like girls smoking. She just told me to find someone else after that. And never responded to me. (42:32) The question is, I’ve been good at approaching girls that are alone but get in my head about two girls or a group. How did overcome this? (42:47) Affirmations (45:05) I like the opportunity mindset the most. I give girls an opportunity to meet me. I feel bad if I steal that for them. (45:12) I liked the approaching mindset to pretend that you’re offering the girl a check for $10,000. (45:21) I’m not sure if this is related to the topic, but I mainly struggle with being a man to woman and having sex with a girl in set. But I can start a platonic conversation with anyone. Any tips? (45:40) I think he also mentioned mentorship and coaching, in the quote it was portrayed negatively. (45:52) There are guys with a strong inner game who hold positive yet delusional beliefs that don’t line up with reality. Do those have value or only realistic beliefs? (47:58) More realistic is 1 in 40. (48:40) What if I’m interpreting things in a way that is quite toxic and I’m not aware of an alternative? Like the emotions can swamp my rational mind. Is it a matter of discipline and distancing yourself from your circumstances maybe? (50:26) The high-energy set leading to flakes strikes a cord with me. I think because I have to try and have high energy to get in state, that carries into the interaction. Do you have tips to reduce the energy in the set? Or should I change my mindset to try and go in with lower energy? (52:13) Man, why does this whole game thing feel so adversarial? (53:03) Girls think that I sleep with a lot of other girls and I feel that this is making them very insecure on dates and in relationships. How to deal with it? (53:16) Follow up with the girl who smokes. I actually brought up the smoking thing out of nowhere. I did not know she smoked. I said: “I don’t like girls smoking or drinking too much.” I was surprised she just got completely turned off. How can I rephrase my wording in the future, so this won’t happen again? Should I make the statement vaguer?
