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Weekly Q&A #9 — 9/20/21 Date: 9/20/21 (0:42) What can I do before establishing premise so that it will be accepted, and not get an “I have a bf response“? Is there another step between open-premise? (5:04) What are examples of things I can qualify/evaluate the girl on if I’m only looking to hook up or become friends with benefits, and not make her a potential girlfriend? (9:18) How to reconcile in your head the idea of being free from the outcome and being a hard closer? They seem to contradict one another. (15:58) How did games like poker and chess help you improve your skills in meeting women? Do you recommend it to guys who go out regularly? (19:33) Approach anxiety isn’t really much of an issue but I get anxious in the middle of a set that’s going well. Tips on overcoming the fear of messing up a good set? (25:03) What are some baby steps I can use in premise stage, to make the escalation subtle, to test the water without harsh rejections? (28:03) MOVING SOON, and am curious about how distance plays a role in logistics. What would change in strategy when pulling to a home 5mins, 15mins, 25mins away, and so on? (34:32) Is “high value“ different if ur coming from a boyfriend or lover/player frame? What values should I focus on conveying if I want her as a casual sex partner? (36:13) Is it possible to lose a “man to woman“ frame w a girl u already hooked up with but haven’t seen or talked in a while? Re-establish premise or assume it’s on? (38:34) You mentioned don’t say things like “my place“ or my “hotel room“ when pulling. When she asks where you’re going, how do you respond? (43:45) Gamed in my 20s, got decent results then got into a 6year relationship. Now single, I’m back to being a student of game. Difference between game in the 20s vs the 30s? (45:42) How do you deal with a girl’s guy friend that tries to aggressively sabotage you, almost trying to start a fight, even though it’s clear the girl likes you? (49:33) Isn’t it high value to establish a premise overtly and be honest? Shows you’re confident and bold with your sexual intent. She either likes you or doesn’t. (52:58) How do you let girls know you’re seeing other girls and would like to add her in your roaster in a way that’s relatable and win-win? (54:04) How to convert buying temperature to attraction? I heard girls with high buying temperatures will sleep with anyone, but how do you make her want to sleep with you only. (59:27) Generally speaking, are introverts at a disadvantage in game? I do well with girls 1-1 but am terrible in crowds, and handling group sets due to social anxiety. (1:03:04) In game, how entitled should you be with women in general? I tend to move on easily if I don’t see a certain level of investment & effort coming from her part (1:07:05) Would it be accurate to define “good game“ as conveying to the girl that you have access to girls like her or hotter than her in a non-try-hard way? (1:08:43) Even if you’re coming from the lover frame do you still need to convey that you “could“ sleep with other girls or that u are actually sleeping with other girls? (1:12:07) How do you feel about girls opening you? (1:13:13) How important is social media (Instagram, Snapchat, etc) for game? (1:15:36) Is it ok to flirt or sleep with your neighbor considering the fact that you will be seeing her every day and will also bring other girls home on occasions? I am thinking don’t shit where you I haven’t flirted with her yet. (1:18:03) Any correlation you’ve seen about a girl’s personality and how fun they are in bed? (1:18:50) I feel weird approaching girls on the street (walking set day game) because it’s super unnatural. Normal people meet in bars, through friends, or online. But I also understand that this is a valid strategy because I’ve hooked up with girls this way. How to not feel weird about it? Every time I do it I feel like I’m doing something wrong (1:23:04) I notice women seem to like things like tattoos and piercings a lot. What’s the evolutionary psychology behind that? (1:26:15) Easiest or best way to make sleeping with you a win for her? (1:27:33) Hi Todd, I have no problem approaching women during the day, and delivering an opener. But I struggle to flip the switch and have them trying to win me over. How would you suggest improving this? (1:31:04) If you don’t have a good job, 60k a year, is it wise to bring it up? Or is it low value?
