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Date: 05/08/22 (0:51) How to build social capital? And how to know if you have enough social capital to ask her for something? (1:12) Can we speak rather than write a question? (1:40) Same, can I speak after the slide.o questions? Tricky to describe questions via message. (5:18) What mistakes are unforgivable in game? Whenever I feel like I’ve failed a shit test or acted low value & weird in set, I assume the set is over and walk away. (8:36) When a girl is not very responsive (text and live game) and you keep giving value, at what point does that become supplication? (11:21) How can women tell if you’re a guy who is part of the “secret society“ or not? Is that a big deal to women? How should you come off if you want to convey that? (17:54) Todd if you went to a club or a party, and you had attractive female friends with you, how would you use that to your advantage? (21:12) How to open even when the girl may be busy/preoccupied/already visually unattracted to you? (23:44) Which is the more bodacious game goal - to lay multiple “11s“ as some guys would call them or to have great relationships with girls who are “hot enough“? (26:29) (Follow-up question) The question is basically that I’m trying to “aim for the skies“. I’m trying to set a “worthy“ goal. (29:44) (Follow-up question) I went for an approach last week where I went up to the girl and said “Hey“. She was speaking to me but in my opinion, it seemed like she was already visually unattracted to me. (34:53) (Follow-up question) You mentioned a statement of empathy in terms of the negative open. Can you give an example of that? (37:13) Hi Todd! How to build a better connection with the girl? Does it depend on the girl or your mood? Sometimes I do The System steps and they work but I don’t feel a connection developing. (42:00) When you approach a girl, should you usually aim to “square up”/have your body completely face hers, ASAP? Sometimes when I open I deliberately don’t completely face the girl so I dont look too needy or eager, and then I’ll face her/square up within the first 60s. Not sure what effect this has on the interaction. (44:33) (Follow-up question) It sounds like squaring up demands more attention. What are some circumstances or examples of when you would not want to be as demanding of attention? (47:00) If you make an unforgivable mistake you face a game tribunal with Todd as head judge. So that’s how you know. (47:09) I’m pretty sure a girl in a 2 set yesterday wanted me / my wingman to come over with them, but I kind of fucked up the subtle signal she sent. The girl said she had to leave soon, and I’ll omit a lot of details/context for brevity, but I’m 90% she wanted to pull me. I didn’t know how to accept her invitation to come over and not make her feel slutty. I wanted to give her plausible deniability. How could I have inquired further? (47:47) (Live question) To make a long story short, it was what you may picture, like “We may have to leave soon“, sort of expectantly. And in my head, the answer is “Yes“ but I was like how do I phrase this in a non-needy way? (53:00) How to convey a value-offering frame after opening? Girls assume you want something from them when you attract their attention. (54:43) Yesterday I solo approached a two-set. My target really liked me, I prematurely ejaculated and settled for a number after about ten minutes. She said she really enjoyed talking to me. I kept seeing them around the bar and I flip-flopped a lot about whether I should re-engage or stick with the number. I overthought it because I didn’t know how to re-engage without looking needy / how to re-engage “smoothly.” I did end up deciding to re-engage, and I fucked it up because I was nervous/failed to assume the burden, etc. The question is this Todd: in this situation where you get a number and see the girl again in the bar, should you re-engage? Follow up, how could I re-engage smoothly/in a non-needy way? (58:51) I’m into self-improvement a lot. When meeting girls, should you present yourself as a work in progress or come off as someone who is fulfilled in life and already has everything he wants? There’s a saying that women only want winners (1:00:00) What stories should I tell about myself in terms of sexualizing the conversation when you aren’t sexually experienced? (1:02:12) Following up on the last question, what’s the key to telling stories that make you look high value without giving dishonest signals? Also, this could be an exercise. (1:03:24) If you’re seeing a girl after you slept with her, when should you try to sleep with her again and when not? (1:04:53) I notice a lack of inspiration with texting/approach cold some days, literally, nothing comes up, especially when the response is low/ short. should I skip the game that day, or are there techniques to arouse energy for banter and gaming?
