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Date: 12/29/21 (1:14) Model for Texting - 4 Types of Texts (2:30) Two types of Open (Indirect and Direct) (10:02) Next Two Phases (Premise and Evaluate) (12:10) Narrative (15:00) Model for When Things are Going Well (15:40) Other Parts of Game - Re-opening and Passing Tests (15:58) What would we do with passing tests? (16:15) 4 Ways You Can Pass Shit Tests (20:34) Re-opening (27:17) Thoughts on taking a pause after “Excuse me“ and throwing in a “Hello“ with a smile and another pause on the open if she doesn’t give anything really tease-worthy? (31:37) I just watched your video on the “inception technique“ where you briefly talked about it. If I understood it well, the inception technique is about “displaying high-value traits“ throughout the interaction and trusting yourself that this will make her chase. Also playing with the “possibility“ of you and her together/being sexual, without actually going out your way to make it happen. Or is that the wrong mindset? (34:12) Is it better to mini-cold-read her or ask a qualifying question after the opener? or something better to create more banter? (36:54) Can you give some specifics and examples on the verbal and physical escalation in small increments? Like for example: 5% 10% 20% 40% 60% 80% (38:44) Isn’t it going too quick if you open direct and she responds positively, to start qualifying right away? Maybe there should be a bit of get-to-know conversation in between? (41:46) On the open, I just flat out say “I have to go in a minute but you seem interesting. I wanted to find out if I like you“ Is there anything flawed with that approach? (45:16) In what situations would “delaying“ the premise after the open, be the best thing to do? (Like wait until you have enough value/comfort before being a man to woman) (49:19) I have this habit of narrating my day or perspective (talking about “Me“) if the open doesn’t pop. Sometimes when the set begins going poorly, I go back to narrating the “Me“, explaining myself, why I’m in the particular venue, etc. Is this equivalent to going back to the re-open? FYI, the sets I do this don’t go too well after that, LOL (52:09) The guideline for opening we learned today seems very condensed to have a real conversation because it can be achieved in a few lines. What do you say the rest of the time you’re talking to the girl? I think the game is supposed to be the 10% of the conversation, is that right? (55:20) Is “relative value“ something you have to build throughout the interaction with your game, or Can you have a high “relative value“ from start on the open? If yes, how? (56:42) What are your thoughts on misinterpreting a shit test (which isn’t too rude) as an advance and leaping into a “We“ conversation? Is it depend on the stage of interaction whether it’s premature or not? (59:03) How do you create banter? It’s hard for me to say random conversations even with friends, so when people say “just have a normal conversation“ It’s not so clear. (1:01:52) If your opener is very situational. For example, in line casually chatting about what might be happening further up the line (impersonal chat). How do you link that to more personal chat and games? (1:04:16) Follow-up on the “delaying premise“ question. Isn’t it better to delay the premise to avoid having the “I have a boyfriend“ response? Or is there a better strategy to avoid getting that response? (1:06:11) When you get out to open girls, do you have a particular street in mind and you stay there, or do you walk around multiple streets? (1:07:17) If you disqualify a shy, introverted girl, can she take it seriously and think that you mean it and get turned off? How do you calibrate based on the girl? (1:08:43) What should the goal be after getting the girl’s attention with the opener? Should you try to get the social hook point before the sexual hook point? (1:10:57) What do you consider an “opened“ set and how to know if the premise has been established and “accepted“? (1:12:54) Are webinars always going to be about beginner subjects? (1:13:56) Should you figure out her logistics right after the open? (1:15:58) When you get a positive response and you keep stacking with gaming stuff maybe even escalate, aren’t you at risk of getting resistance at some point? Isn’t better to keep mixing normal and gaming stuff when you get a positive response?
