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(0:49) How to handle getting called out on an ambiguous tease? e.g. “Is that a compliment or an insult?“ or “Well, that’s a back-handed compliment“. (2:13) I remember watching an old video where you said most pickup theory is constructed around the idea of “implied social proof“. Can you elaborate on what you meant? (5:15) Thoughts on communicating man-to-woman premise with work colleagues while being careful about possible HR violations? (8:00) What role does the evaluation phase play in game? If the girl already likes you, why bother shaking the boat? (12:38) Is it a bad idea to tell girls early on that you hate clingy, jealous girls, and to screen out girls who would potentially object to threesomes & multiple LTRs? (17:48) Is FOMO (Fear of missing out) the main tool used in game to sleep with girls faster? Or is creating that sense of urgency the wrong approach to getting fast sex? (22:42) What’s the key to not being boring in set without being perceived as a dancing monkey? I always felt I need to be high energy to attract women. (27:33) Can you discuss the concept of a ‘harsh tease’: the definition, purpose, applicable stage in game, possible reactions, and next steps to look for? (31:48) Can we do an exercise where we have to follow up after a tease or say something intriguing, answer her questions without “closing the loop“ and keep the intrigue going? Especially dealing with girls who were full-on ignoring you or not very invested from the start? (34:40) Reposting since I got the calls mixed up yesterday: I can’t seem to catch a break these days with women. How do you recover from a date that basically sucks out all your confidence and motivation? As in, the entire interaction more or less confirmed every negative belief you had about your ability with women and almost kills whatever hope you had of getting better with them? (39:42) Exercise (Tease) (39:55) First Student (43:03) Second Student (45:48) Third Student (51:09) Fourth Student (52:25) Fifth Student (55:53) (Live follow-up question) (1:03:32) Live class request - Advanced qualification techniques. More subtle ways to qualify the girl than flat out asking, and stating qualities you find attractive in her. (1:04:17) When trying to establish the premise by saying something less overt like “you’re adorable“, I’m worried that she might just see me as a nice guy who is sweet and gives compliments, instead of crossing that man-to-woman barrier and view me as someone she’d potentially sleep with. What to do in that situation? (1:05:45) (Live Question) (1:07:53) When a girl does not ask you questions despite having thrown out some premise (e.g. we have too much in common, this would never work; we’re too similar, we’d fight), what would you recommend to do in that case? (1:10:17) How to blend gamey stuff into the normal conversation without feeling jarring? (1:12:09) Note/Reminder on long question/s (1:12:30) (Live Question) (1:18:44) So In short, does evaluation serves the purpose of increasing her attraction and comfort towards you? (1:19:09) I asked you about recovering from a complete game overhaul and getting back to the center. You said I should drop everything new I tried to force in, go back to what I was doing and I’d get “most of the way back“. 2 weeks later, I can say I haven’t gotten back some really really great things. Probably a lot of the best ones, not just technical but inner game, motivational, and entitlement ones. Should I try to integrate those things back into my game as a 5% change, like I was starting from square 1 before I got my excellent revelations and I started doing as well as I did? Like, start over as a beginner. (1:20:42) Sometimes I just open to girls at a time where in spite of a good, albeit brief, open/interaction, they were walking/going somewhere or they realize they have to go look for their friends, and then what I usually do is a false time constraint but often girl just has to go anyway. I say these interactions are going well because the girls are doing the dreamy eyes, playing with their hair a lot, etc. What more could I do in these situations besides a false time constraint and just saying “wait, 2 seconds,” and continuing the conversation/plowing? (1:24:29) When should you seed an instadate in daygame? How to assess if you have enough premise and evaluation for that?
