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Date: 12/16/21 (1:30) When will we get the student text breakdown? (2:53) As a beginner should you try your best in set to hide the fact that you’re inexperienced with meeting women/casual sex? If not what’s a better strategy? (8:39) Not a question, but have a speedy recovery Todd! (8:50) How do I make her feel special, even when she knows I had many girls before? (12:32) For an intermediate guy, is it better to focus on quantity or quality? I want hotter girls in the long run, but which path should I go first? (16:52) Long-distance relationship, had sex 3 days in a row she said coming back in Feb. How many times to reach or *facetime on Instagram 1 or 2 a week? I don´t want to chase I’d like her to be my girlfriend. (20:00) She’s not starting the texting, but she replies almost instantly every time and is very positive. (21:12) When asked how long I have been single, should I err on the side of short or long? I don’t want to say yesterday or 5 years ago. (22:40) If a girl is closed for a date (with a wine premise) how would you re-open on text? Do I go straight for the logistics “What’s your week look like?“ or chat? (24:36) He means she agreed to a date and then she gives you her number and then continues on SMS. So do you start the SMS message with logistics straight up? I think he means that. (25:53) Follow-up question long-distance relationship girl: How many times per week should I set up facetime and how often respond to her stories weekly. What kind of story or message to have a boyfriend/girlfriend frame? (26:50) What is chemistry? How to create it? Is it attraction or narrative? (34:19) Jesus, you really had a bad time, didn’t you? (34:41) If a girl is being positive and qualifying two texts into online game (Open, Premise, One Evaluation), is it safe to seed the close for a date? (37:35) How to take on a more authoritative frame in set if you’re not congruent with that? (39:37) What venues to go to if I’m looking for long-term relationship material girls who aren’t necessarily monogamous, for night and daygame? (43:16) Had good semi-direct open and premise, then the girl went to rejoin her friends almost out of nowhere, wordlessly (busy bar/dance floor area). What can I start focusing on (evaluation line examples?) to try and get more buy-in faster? As I say it was a near-perfect set until then (receiving compliments / playboy-look shit test / asking what I do), seemed really random /socially rude that she would eject like that. (45:40) I started noticing in some sets when I introduce myself, there is a slight lull in the flow of the interaction. Thought it was possible my saying “My name is .. by the way“ was revealing some agenda. I then erred more so on assuming familiarity in my sets, esp in nightgame and off of the open in general, and go for more comfort (after I build value up quicker) so I can assume EEN more familiarity and create a self-fulfilling prophecy or loop. However, this has been quite hard to do successfully. Do you like this model and do you think it’s exemplary of a good game and problem-solving? (48:46) How common is codependency when it comes to women? Do you think it’s common as society seems to make it be? I noticed narcissistic men tend to do way better when it comes to game. (50:10) Where does the building “comfort“ phase fit in the O-P-E-N-C model? (51:40) Is it ok to chat every day with a girl who has had good sex already and she’s in a different country and planning to return soon. She’s an English 9 and I’m afraid that if I do this then she’ll see me more predictable and lose interest. If I just text her once or twice a week with value giving with pictures or short videos of sneak pics of my life she will miss me more because of being less available. I want an outcome of a serious relationship once she comes back to my city. She said last time she was with me, that’s the only reason to stay in one place and stop traveling would be that she has a child. We already joked about how we would name our first child. Do you agree to have constant contact becoming predictable or keeping it once or twice a week max to keep her in the predictable frame and not being an easy catch until she comes back in February? Thank you. (54:25) As someone whose goal is to date multiple women and be more of a free stallion than a potential boyfriend, is it better to turn down girls/dates who are looking for something more than casual sex and evaluate me as a provider? I usually make it clear what I am looking for early on because I heard you say that it’s easier to transition from lover to provider than the other way around. I personally hate the provider frame because the girls are usually not sexually open. (57:31) I use a lot of open loops/cold reads early on in the interaction, and I often get the girl to invest more in the conversation and
