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(1:06) - You said instructors used to give students a list of things not to do (bad tonality, eye contact), but that doesn’t work. Any better strategy to improve those things? (4:17) - What methods do you use to help students get over inner game issues like self-doubt, not feeling good enough, or a win for the girl, especially the hotter ones? (8:47) - Where to draw the line between “self-amusement/being fun“ and being “too gamey“ in set? Sometimes I say outlandish things as emotional spikes because it amuses me. (14:02) - When texting a girl, should your texts generally give her emotional spikes and avoid being logical? I usually ask her out once her buying temperature is high. (16:04) - When a girl gives you a negative reaction after escalating, is it better to acknowledge it verbally or just take a step back, act like nothing happened & keep talking? (17:27) - In your recent videos you said “sometimes a compliment can be a challenge“, what would be some examples of that be? Any tips on how to come up with your own? (20:19) - In your opinion, what should a good opener contain? Also is it a good idea to make it man to woman on the open? (22:33) - You said outer techniques help build inner game because of the validation & feedback you get from the girl & the world. What to do when you get negative feedback? (24:28) - If you are only in for casual, but the girl is shit testing you about relationships, how to maintain your own frame? Do I react with a willingness to walk away? (27:25) - When the girl wants to move further into the relationship, but I just want to keep it casual, how do I tell her without hurting her? (28:49) - I find it inauthentic to go out, especially to meet girls, and then pretend “it just happened“. Is that just the nature of game; what are your thoughts? (30:30) - Is it more powerful to deliver push-pull lines or disqualifiers in the middle of sentences or topics? Basically, leave them open-loop & have them be in her mind. (32:27) - Is the winner game site still worth checking out? (33:50) - You said in Relationship Manifesto that you’ll spend money with the girl, but not on the girl. So what do I do when the girl asks me to buy her gifts? (39:10) - How do you escalate once you are alone with a girl in your room? Unless the girl is already escalating on me, I don’t really know what to do. (40:59) - Hi Todd, I’m new to evaluation. What should you do if you’re asking a girl to qualify herself and she’s answering your questions, but she’s (unintentionally) giving you answers that you don’t like? Should your questions be obviously leading and indicate what the right answer is? How do you know when you’ve evaluated her enough? (45:05) - How to change her mood, not her mind? How to go about doing that? (47:38) - In a forum post, you said “Fake it ’till you make it, for sure, but also put in the work to “make it” in the long run “. By putting in work, did you mean raising your “absolute value“? What did you mean exactly? (50:05) - What topics can we usually talk about with girls we meet in a cold approach? (51:17) - Broke quarantine yesterday for the first time, two out of the three sets I opened (the hottest) closed with social media. One of them was a closet 10 I wasn’t even aware of mid-set, lol. I feel like I’m picking up right where I left off in terms of game and am positively thrilled going forward! (51:38) - If you haven’t been with a lot of women before, should you hide that fact about yourself or be transparent about it? (53:50) - When I try to go for a kiss during dates, sometimes I fail. Should I continue to try for the kiss, and when will be a good time to walk away and move to the next set? (56:16) - In the past, when you were working alongside other instructors, everyone seemed to have different styles of game. What styles were you the least a fan of and why? Without mentioning the person, of course. (57:48) - What’s your mentality when responding to shit tests? Are you expecting her to still like you and stay in set, or are you just cool with her walking away and don’t care if she’s offended? (1:00:45) - What are some recent sticking points you’ve helped guys with on Bootcamp? How did you help them handle this? (1:02:05) - When logistics call for it, how do we try to pull her back to her own place? (1:04:22) - Sometimes I get that “this is not me“ feeling in set, which prevents me from escalating, being sexual, disqualifying, or having a cocky frame in general; do you recommend taking on a “persona“ in this case to get over this issue? (1:05:35) - In a cold approach, when the vibe is good and I ask for the number, she refused. Is there anything I can do about it? Normally the girl or I would just walk away... (1:07:23) - I tried to misinterpret a girl’s response, teasing her, but somehow turned her
