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Date: 10/03/21 (2:03) Last time you said going on a 3rd date could be a weaker lead than going on a 1st date. What could I be doing wrong if I can’t sleep with her on the 1st date? (7:36) You said to not be reactive and “keep throwing value“ if a girl doesn’t respond well initially. What is value in that context? (15:43) How to keep the fundamentals (basic skills) sharp? ie approaching consistently, escalating. I do those so often that they become habits, not consciously aware. (18:56) How to know if you’re progressing things too slowly in set? And if you do need to progress things faster, how to know how fast is appropriate for the situation? (24:57) When seeding the pull, does the girl subconsciously know it could end up in sex? I don’t want to be in a situation where escalating comes off as a surprise. (27:11) As someone who’s been coaching students for years, what’s the most common area in game you see them get stuck at? Progress wise. (30:06) Someone brought up the idea that you could break down infields of sets you failed/got rejected just for the program. Would be very informative. Thoughts? (36:06) How to build a habit of being more polarizing in set, and also leading, so that I do them naturally without trying hard? I lack those two things in my game. (38:28) Can you talk about “selective blind spots“ in game and how to implement them? watched too much theory, I’m aware of too many things wrong in set, I give up easily. (43:14) How can I introduce sexual tension in a conversation where the girl never stops talking about random topics that aren’t men to women? (47:01) What are the downsides that girls are worried about before deciding they wanna hang out with you? Best way to eliminate them so there are only upsides left? (50:36) I hesitate to show premise in the negative, or disqualifying because I might get the “okay?“ or “whatever“ response. What to do in a situation like that? (56:23) How to get good at instigating in a way that’s not trying hard? (57:43) What type of mic /audio recorder can you recommend for recording infield sets? (59:24) Hey Todd, in the system in the day game infield, you recommended that making statements instead of asking questions in conversations. Can you give an example of that? (1:02:00) Wanted your advice on how to approach it for older guys (42). Right now, I’m hiding my age. Looks like only Tinder has that feature. I’m in great shape, train 7 days a week. So I can pull it off. How do I answer the age question? I had the question come up a few times, and I’ve either answered it straight up or changed the subject. Do I just be straight up, and let them decide if they want to meet? Or Get them to meet, and build value in person. Then let them know if they ask in person, and let them decide how they want to proceed. Maybe I’m overthinking the age issue. (1:07:48) But aren’t most girls down to sleep on the first date, with the right guy? (1:09:00) Online Game: I got a feeling that I may be waiting too long to ask for a day 2, and buying temperature dies off. How quickly should I go for day 2? Within a week? On the same day of the match? At the moment, I’m thinking of only asking for day 2 after the video chat to see if there is any chemistry for day 2. But I feel that doesn’t motivate the girl enough to have the video chat. I’m considering using video chat as a way to screen girls. Any hesitation to have a video chat screens her out. What do you think? I think some of these girls are just using guys as validation and entertainment. How do I communicate I want to ask her out, but only after a video chat without being blunt eg? I want to have a video chat with you to make sure you look like your photos, not a weirdo, fat, ugly, or social retard. In order to not waste my time organizing the date. In the past, I use to get the conversation to a different messaging app. And just call them to see if they pick up. (1:12:45) How do you design your game for sleeping on the first date? (1:14:01) What do you think of exchanging Instagram details with a girl? I feel like it’s an uneven playing field, where now you become another guy who is DMing her. Especially when I have no interest in building up an IG account and maintaining it. Using it just to contact girls. (1:16:23) Any other steps or tips on how to pull girls to hotel rooms versus apartments/houses? (1:18:03) I open direct (you’re cute). It usually produces a good reaction and we start chatting. The girl seems interested. But then, 30 seconds later, she says she has to go. Then my default is to close her right away and that way I get phone numbers. But I can’t understand why they have
