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Date: 05/15/22 (0:44) Can we get the recording for the solo game webinar? It’s not uploaded. (1:02) What is the difference between teasing and disqualifying a girl both in theory and in practice? (Please give an example of both) Thanks! (3:36) What’s the best way to convince yourself that you are enough and that you’re someone girls would like to sleep with? (5:58) If a girl starts asking boring questions that steer the conversation away from progressing the set, what do you do to get it back on track? (9:33) What are comfort shit tests and how do I deal with them? (13:40) How to get validation when you’re trying something new outside your personality? I feel discouraged if I don’t get a positive reaction from others. (18:14) Is it good or bad to tease something that is less important to the girl vs more important? I.e teasing if she likes food vs her job choice. (19:44) Is there any kind of teasing ladder we could follow? or is this just the wrong way of thinking about teasing? (22:35) What are some of your top cold reads, push and pull, role plays to use on girls that don’t give you anything (game the wall type)? (25:13) How to game a set of 2 girls simultaneously for a threesome? What are the differences in it compared to normal single girl focus? (29:23) Girls think I sleep with a lot of girls and this is making them insecure on dates and in relationships. How to deal with it? (31:13) I thought I was not escalating enough in my game and so this week I overcompensated heavily. I got really pushy in terms of the man-to-woman content, too “in your face“ with my framing, etc. I lost a lot of good things in my game I was doing really well and am having trouble getting back to where I was. Any advice? (32:55) Are you risking a set by disqualifying a girl, generally speaking? Like you’re showing her willingness to offend her (display of abundance). (34:25) When escalating, how to make her feel like we’re helping each other solve problems, not against each other? (38:03) When introducing normal topics, what topics should be avoided and what topic do you recommend, generally speaking? (42:28) Follow up to my last question: Can you elaborate on the significance of escalating using the “We“ frame? I normally get to “We“ with an 85% consistency (conservatively) and so I was kind of taking it for granted. Like it wasn’t a big event in the set. So I misattributed my lack of results to an escalation issue, but now I think it’s more likely a closing issue, or me not really trying for more than a number (in daygame). (43:17) Can we do an exercise with comfort shit tests? Something I’d like to work on. (44:02) When you have a cool lifestyle/job/passion, how do you leverage it in the set? (45:40) Shit test exercise (45:54) First student (49:16) Second student (51:05) Third student (53:31) So it’s an assertiveness gauge, that studies with the lines? (53:49) Oh yeah, that experiment I feel like that’s also about being tolerant to social pressure as well as trusting yourself. (53:52) When passing comfort tests, how do you do that without destroying sexual tension? Validating a girl has always been a fear of mine for that reason. (55:42) There’s a great *old* Todd video on YouTube about withstanding social pressure, too, called “How not tipping the waitress increases your sex life / Todd V” (56:11) We normally need to get girls to say “yes”, but I find that getting a “no” is good too. Just change the question. For example, when I say: is it a bad idea to talk with cute charming boys? (with good delivery) girls often say “no” but it essentially works like a “yes”. What’s your take on getting girls to say “no” on purpose? (57:02) Do hot girls intentionally avoid eye contact? Should I just assume they noticed me all the time? (58:15) It’s really hard to follow the “Winding forest“ path with the ladders. Meaning, to skip one or two steps in your ladder when the girl actually likes you. (59:28) It’s amazing how comfortable I’ve become with touching the girl early in a first date (from online dating). It’s become like muscle memory—I just always touch the girls I’m on a date with now. Very helpful habit. (59:38) “When the girl is giving you nothing, she is actually giving you something.” - Zen / Game Proverb (1:00:20) Hey Todd what’s a steady exercise amount/week for general fitness? Not looking to overdo it and burn out. Just want consistency. (1:03:04) In your opinion, what facts about yourself do you think girls should almost never know? Besides your lay count because it can easily be a good or bad answer depending on the girl. (1:04:35) I closed with 3 out of 5 at once. But thinking about a threesome is far from reality. (1:05:32) Three days/week of lifting has been good for me. Plenty of stimulation for muscle/strength growth, but also flexible with rest days.
