about a person who have seriously ill or sick and death at funeral

Hello Filipino Deaf community and friends! I want to give my advise for you about a person who have seriously ill or sick and death at funeral. I never forget that one Deaf who visited my mommy’s wake last year. I shared what happened about my mom had cause but he told me that her fault because she did not take care. He seemed no respect how I felt but I stayed myself to be calm and understand why somebody who isn’t mature yet. I remembered same what happened to my friend Ashley, Marion Renz, Juan and some friends who died. Some people never understand and did like that and always accused. 1. Please don’t give negative too much to the person who have sick because there is no respect and person might give up his/her life or make them depression too much. 2. Please understand a person who don’t want anyone to visit before going to die because it’s her/his privacy and want to rest more together with family, relatives or closed friends (bff, bf, gf). 3. Please give comfortable and make a sick person happy wh