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Date: 02/27/22 (1:15) Exercise (Sex with me is like) (2:27) Sex with me is like a Hollywood Movie. (6:30) Sex with me is like duct tape. (10:55) Cold Approached a girl in the train station. The interaction was great, we agreed on coffee, but she travels out for 30 days. How do I set the date once she is back? (14:56) How to get girls to invest emotionally in me? What questions should I ask or statements to make? (18:14) How to set boundaries to a British girlfriend who is criticizing me if I make a small mistake booking a hotel for her. She speaks little Spanish so I’ve helped often. (22:07) How to call her out on her passive-aggressive behavior and break up with my girlfriend if she’s not willing to change. Just distancing and getting busier? (25:27) After 4 years in game, I notice I still do a lot of what worked in the past, but due to the internal change, I need new ways to attract better women. Thoughts? (29:47) I tend to associate women’s looks with their value and I feel women can sense this, they don’t feel like I genuinely trying to connect with them. Any mindsets? (35:12) Example of question and answer tease (36:05) First Exercise (Question and Answer Tease) (40:43) Todd what if you’re actually into meditation too. Would you still tease or would you say you do that too? (44:17) Second Exercise (Question and Answer Tease) (53:46) There are times that a girl says she has a boyfriend but is so happy I approached her and wants me to stay. I have a lot of resistance to continuing the conversation though and usually end it when they say I have a boyfriend, wrong move right? I could continue and get her Instagram at least? I just don’t know how to navigate such situations since it’s not as straightforward as messaging a single/available girl. (55:52) You said you think about the game in terms of techniques you use and not the literal content of what you’re saying. Does that apply to what you hear from the girl as well? E.g. shit test, qualifiers, etc. (58:03) In teasing/banter and answering shit tests I tend to go for a big blow as opposed to a light banter. I say stuff to insult and attack her vs slight jabs at her bitch shield which ruins the dynamic. Any thoughts? What things are ok to joke with vs things that aren’t? (1:02:18) Context: We went out three times great sex back in November. She traveled to Central America then she came back to spend Christmas with me and my family (I live with my parents). We stayed in my hometown until January 3rd. We traveled around my country until mid-January, she paid for everything she invited me. We agreed not to be interested in seeing other people she touched the topic first. Then she’s been traveling on the coast from February 6th up to one more week until we see each other again. She’s had a conflict with three hotels because of employees being lazy for example telling them to be more silent with the music speaker in front of her room, when she books online it says anything about charging her a fee of 3 USD for using her card. During this time we have had 3 discussions about me being patronizing because I’m telling her to take care, that the hotels she’s going to are not 5-star hotels she’ll find in the UK, she’s in a third world country. She took that as petulant and on purpose. (1:04:42) I think my main issue is when I notice there are eyes on me mid-set, my mind really freezes up and I lose the upper hand both in the set, or my momentum when it comes to my own frame is halted. Whereas the girls are many times more comfortable being gamed, especially gamed well and exposed to my highest value self, than I am being that guy. (1:07:45) How to deal with the overreactive girls? (1:08:40) Is there ever a scenario that you would consider taking back an ex? Or is it a bad idea in general? (1:09:40) I’m talking to a girl on campus who I went on a date with last week, and it ended well. We ended up going back to my place, no sex (I tried kissing her but she said she doesn’t kiss on the first date). But even after this happened I was receiving clear indicators of interest from her by her being overtly touchy with me without me even initiating it. After this, over the week we exchanged a few texts in which it was a flirty vibe and she had even admitted interest in me so it was going well. And in trying to set up the second date through the text I think I had a misstep which caused the texting interaction to grow a bit stale. (I think I went too comfort-based in response to her text because I thought I had more value built up than I actually did). I see this girl on campus about 1-2 times a week so I’m worried the interaction might go cold. Since our date, we’ve interacted just once shortly while I was working my on-campus job at the gym and the vibe was still good, the stale texting came.
