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(0:47) Do you think approaching girls with the intention of getting rejected on purpose is a good way to get over the fear of rejection and approach anxiety? (3:54) What are things couples do together that I can do with the girl in daygame so she will feel like we are together already? (6:23) How to game in a music festival with thousands of people? It’s difficult to pull, so is it better to get hundreds of numbers even though the flake rate is high? (12:49) I can find more girls with a scooter. Do you have experience with doing daygame with it? And how? (16:37) Girls like music so much. How do I use this to my advantage such as arousing music? (21:17) Questions: 1. What specific formats should you use in Narrative? 2. How to assess when Narrative is achieved? (25:08) When pulling to my place is impossible, how do you pull to her place? How to seed, suggest, and pull? I can’t say “Let’s grab a drink in your fridge first”. (33:52) Are there things looks-wise about men that are honest signals of low value? Or are you of the opinion that a good game works regardless of how you look? (40:13) I think a lot about my past interactions. Where do you see the line between productive and counterproductive analysis of social experiences? (41:37) Are you still doing the roadmaps? I submitted mine almost 2 months ago now and not sure if it was lost in limbo (and I should resubmit) or if you’ve just been busy. (42:12) How to open girls who are sunbathing? They wear very little, or no top. (44:05) What does it mean when a girl is responding to my frames very well, flirts back and responds to the premise, but backs away physically and acts almost skittish, making physical escalation harder? Let alone me going for a kiss. Maybe I need to be sexualizing a lot earlier or a lot more in the set to get the girl comfortable with the idea of getting escalated on or closed. Or at least “getting to the point“ more instead of outright sexualizing. (47:38) (Live follow-up question) As far as the point about spending more time, the problem for me is that the sets that happened were either walking sets or at the bus stop. So I don’t have a lot of time by definition. And that’s a big problem for me: gaming in a way that’s heavy on-premise and tension and finding out I’m gonna have to take a number and make it solid somehow. (49:36) (Live follow-up question) About the physicality: it’s not that I’m trying to be physical, it’s more that when I think “It’s time to get physical with this girl because it’s going really well“, that’s the time they act like a sort of skittish. Like they make it difficult. (53:23) Funny, when I say: Tell me to fuck off, girls almost never actually say “Fuck off”. So is it okay to do this in a joking way? (53:52) I can now open so-called 8’s quite consistently and keep them talking to me for a while, but I can’t be emotionally compelling enough for the girl to want to keep talking to me and for it to escalate. Don’t know what to change in order to get the set to stick. (55:26) (Live follow-up question) I can instigate and stuff and they’ll have a reaction and they’ll talk. Then the emotions would go up, but then they sink down quite quickly and I’m kind of thinking “What to do now?“ and it doesn’t go where I want it to go. (58:11) My wing gave me exercises for 9-10 game today: 3-second silence after everything I say (sexual tension builds in pauses), 90% baseline, 10% gamey shit, and invest lower than her in the speed of speech, body language, and movements, just like replying 1 line to 3-4 lines from her in texting, but calibrate to her in approach. (1:02:11) For the approach anxiety exercises, do you recommend daygame or nightgame environments?
