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Date: 01/22/22 (2:04) Slide Presentation (Major Date Mistakes and Lessons) (2:48) Not making a move (8:34) Meeting in the middle (11:56) No home game plan (14:32) Dates where there isn’t real interaction (19:12) “Blowing your start“ at the start (23:54) Pulling too early (advanced) (26:39) Time Constrained Dates (33:28) No plan dates (Pull vs The second date) (37:29) Dinner (41:39) Can you explain the difference in dynamic and also of the girl’s experience in the context of an instant date vs a pre-planned one? (44:40) How do you proceed differently on a date when you have plenty of time vs. when time is limited? (46:06) I was pretty heartbroken last night but I went out anyway to meet the recommended 3 sets / 3 days a week, did seven approaches, and really pushed the envelope, but nothing really hooked because I wasn’t present/in the mood, etc. Went home shortly after. All things considered, a successful night out? Trying not to be hard on me. (46:28) If you go to a kiss girl and don’t get the kiss. Would you try again? (49:10) Based on the steak story, it seems logistical escalation is implausible on a prearranged venue. (51:24) I don’t have much interesting stuff to do at my place (rooftop, pool, etc.). Even getting a drink doesn’t make sense to me because we’re leaving a bar where we can also get drinks. The only thing I come up with is inviting her to watch a movie or something which I don’t like much either. Any other suggestions? (54:51) How do you know where is the point of no return? (56:50) How bad is it if it takes a few dates to get to sex, because of my decision, not hers? (58:53) I’ve been on three dates with the same girl already. We kissed several times and held hands. They were “dates in the middle“ in coffee shops and shopping malls. I’ve invited her on a fourth date to go ice skating with the intention to improve physical contact. I’ll try to get her on a fifth date to a gym next to my place and then pull if she’s still interested. Right now the gyms are closed so it’s the best I can do. Is this a good plan? (1:01:33) Confused about this dichotomy of it not being necessary to kiss her vs it is the first step to getting the pull and sex. Can you elaborate? (1:03:26) How do you deal with physical escalation when she sits across the table from you? (1:05:40) How does date different after having sex with her? (1:07:39) What are some good games to play at your place? Like seeding the pull? (1:11:19) Do you recommend push aways and disqualifiers to maintain the ratio of approval on a date? Can they be of greater intensity and degree, given that there is comfort associated with being on a date with you, as well as good narrative/storytelling? (1:13:18) Do you ever go out on a date and decide at some point you wouldn’t even want to hook up with this girl? Because of some disagreement or maybe you just don’t like her beyond her looks. (1:14:10) Your parents are smart. (1:14:19) I’d have to try so hard to let her win if she challenged me to chess. (1:16:00) Could you give concrete examples of such disqualifiers and push aways? (1:16:49) Do girls find it lame if I get tea on a date? I don’t drink much, because I usually drive, but I also don’t mind getting a few drinks if it makes a difference. (1:20:47) What does good escalation look like on a date? If I do one thing and she likes it, then follow with something bigger, it hits her all at once and she rejects it. (1:21:54) In your experience, what percentage of number closes is reasonable to convert in dates? What percentage of dates is reasonable to convert in sex? (1:25:30) Does it play a difference if the date is daytime or nighttime? (1:25:40) Are there any circumstances in which it is better not to go for sex on a first date? (1:26:20) Can you describe a bit a typical date for you and your coaches? (1:26:43) Could you give concrete examples of such disqualifiers and push aways? Related to the previous question. (1:26:58) On dates, do we follow the format OPENC method? Without the open? (1:27:48) Todd how would you game if the girl is a virgin, I’m young, and most girls I believe they’re not sluts. If you took an 18 virgin-year-old on a date, would you try to pull her in on the first date? (1:29:18) I have the default frame of getting to know your stuff etc, is there a better frame I can have to move things sexually? I’m getting boyfriend categorized too much. (1:31:17) Really interesting conversation about how to run a date vs a cold approach set. (1:38:59) Next webinar
