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Weekly Q&A #10 — 9/29/21 Date: 9/29/21 (5:27) How to find better alternatives to your current leveling behaviors if you don’t know any? (10:23) Did your beliefs in game evolve or change over the years? I’ve always wondered if what you used to teach back in the days, is consistent with your teachings now. (12:04) So basically to avoid leveling behaviors you have to add sexual tension? (17:02) I am getting 3-5 numbers per week, but 90% of the girls ghost me. I am opening well, keeping things man to woman, and using push pull. How to prevent ghosting? (20:26) How to remain high value and a challenge for her if you’re in an exclusive LTR? It seems to me that it’s easy to lose your value when u make her your GF or wife. (26:33) In game, should I push it further even when I feel like it’s not going anywhere, just for the sake of learning? Maybe it is not what I feel like. (30:07) The “Low/no premise” game is better than the premise, esp with 9s and 10s. Some of my PUA friends don’t do many premises but befriend/connect first, then seduce. (36:49) When you approach during the daytime, should you acknowledge the randomness/awkwardness of the situation first, or just hit on her? I am a stranger after all. (42:19) How to be persistent without looking needy? Also, any good reason why we should consider being persistent with one girl instead of finding a girl more into you? (46:40) What are some practical ways to work on your confidence? With women in particular. I know the right things to say in set, but it comes off incongruent and fake. (52:53) You mentioned once that the girl doesn’t need you to be 10/10 in value to sleep with you. You just need to reach a certain threshold. How to reach that threshold? (56:35) If a 9 or 10 knows you haven’t dated or slept with a girl of her caliber before, will it be harder to sleep with her or get a relationship on your term? (57:53) Best way to answer the “what are you looking for?“ question on dating apps? I’ve had results telling her flat out what I’m looking for but definitely not a good game. (59:18) How to make escalation/sexualization or intent natural for you? I always fear getting shamed. The more negative response I get, the more I hesitate next time. (1:04:16) What is your view on “friend zone is because the guy doesn't have enough value“? (1:09:32) Is the indirect style of game more “natural“ and more like “it just happened“? (1:09:48) I injected premise constantly but the girl doesn't flirt back and keeps ignoring the premise. What should I do? (1:11:00) Push pulls and disqualification can almost always make girls laugh, but they tend to ghost me when I follow up in texting. Is it because it's too unnatural? (1:13:47) Generally speaking, is talking about your nerdy passions with the girl on dates, a good idea, or would that kill the sexual vibe? (1:16:00) With spontaneous online openers, what are ways to understand if my open is sufficient? As in not too boring but also not too try-hard? (1:17:43) Hey Todd, I'm new here but I can't log into the forum/Facebook group also having problems reaching your support team? (1:18:49) Some girls have this idea that if she sleeps with me quickly I won't consider her to be for something more serious later on. Even though it's not true, how to deal with a situation like that? (1:20:08) If I try to establish premise in the negative by saying for example “don't give me that look“ or “don't turn me on“ and she disqualifies by saying “I don't do anything and I don't want to.“ is it bad for the interaction? What do you recommend to do when this happens? (1:22:37) I have trouble keeping the attention of the girls under 23 that is a bit hotter. Even when I'm using push pulls that work/hook a lot of my other sets. Any tips on gaming the younger hotter girls. Online as well. They give like one or 2-word answers. Any frames or techniques that might help me out?
