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Date: 01/12/22 (1:38) Key Concepts in Online Dating (2:05) You Must Stand Out (9:00) Know Your Site (20:50) First Message Guidance (30:51) Four Types of Texts (32:00) Call/Date Strategy (36:39) Good Photos (47:45) You said you can get away being politically incorrect on sites on tinder, but when it comes to bumble, how can you be polarizing? (49:28) I don’t have a high-value lifestyle at all. Even if I had a great shot taken while doing some outdoor activity or sport, let’s say in some extraverted environment, with a lot of people around, it’d be absolutely incongruent to me. What do you recommend in this case, specifically if I’m going for a polarizing bio (on Tinder)? (53:50) Re: photos, how do you know if your photos are good? I got a photographer and still only match with girls that I’m more attractive than? (57:36) I had situations where we had a short nice chat, but when I propose to meet, no response anymore. If the girl does not anymore respond or react, is it worth sending another message or better let it be? (1:00:46) Are you going to be revealing some new stock openers? (1:06:00) Like Alex said, how do we find a crew or group of friends to go out with to take photos with? High-value photos? (1:07:25) I don’t have any social proof photos. I don’t have any friends. How do I convey the same message without that kind of photo? (1:07:46) Can you give some examples of a ’hook’ as part of your profile? (1:10:46) Thoughts on using the audio messages? I’ve just stayed away from it as there’s a high likelihood of it being a UDI. (1:11:31) One of my hobbies is shooting traps. I was hesitant to show a pic for this because it is usually associated with conservative thinking and banned from some sites. I am more moderate. Is this an example of a good pic to show to polarize? (1:13:55) What do you recommend for asking her on a date online? (1:15:58) So I can write my bio depending on whether I want a long-term or short-term thing, right? (as I’ve heard you mention elsewhere) Are these two mutually exclusive? (1:20:04) Love Hinge I crush it on there also but I use basically the same profile on Bumble and it’s a ghost town. Do you have some general tweaks you’d recommend on Bumble? (1:21:52) How would you answer this response from a girl: Yes I’m a Physician Assistant! I’ve never been to NYC but I would want to visit. What do you miss about moving from NYC? (background-we live in Phoenix and she moved from Vegas, I moved from NYC. I’m a dentist) (1:25:08) About the “arrogant and bitchy“ frame - does it have the downside of allowing girls to misbehave with you? (1:26:01) Don’t blame me if you suddenly find your stock formats are burnt to shit. :D (1:26:14) Any way I can get playback of this webinar? There were a lot of things useful I was not able to note down. (1:26:27) What is the main advantage and disadvantage of online game, compared to live interactions (day, night, social game) (1:33:09) Are push pull openers your go-to online or still semi-direct as your default? (1:35:18) How do we recognize where we should “add a challenge/elicit” into our shittest response? What’s meant as “defensive“ in the online manual on page 10, seems contradictory? (1:38:42) Tinder example for my question: Me: Her: No way you’re 34 dude Me: We’ll tell people you’re older No response. Should I add a challenge?
