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Date: 12/07/21 (1:41) Is being unpredictable attractive? If so, how to do it? (2:53) Is this webinar also for the verbal game academy? (6:24) How to make her more comfortable when she finds out I had too many girls? Maybe I should downplay, to begin with, but it’s already too late for this girl. (9:35) During or after the first date, when is the best moment to invite for a second date? Maybe better to wait 1-2 days before asking? (17:07) You said something like: “don’t act like it’s so amazing, act like it’s not a big deal.“ Is this concept apply to game in general or only specific parts of them? (18:15) How to stop self-ejecting? I feel: not optimistic, feel like a creep, don’t know what to say, don’t know beyond, afraid to screw things up, mind goes blank, etc. (21:00) Does the Verbal Game Academy explain how to make the girl chase you? (21:16) How to overcome: “We are in the middle of a conversation“?. I get that a lot. (22:19) In the Verbal Game Academy Webinar on Evaluation you mentioned the 2 possible types of responses to the girls trying to qualify: 1.) bring in or 2.) push away. Can you give some default examples for each of these? (23:32) In the context of talking to women, what is the line between general flirtation vs. sexual flirtation? Can you give some examples of each of these, please? (25:26) Hey Todd, it happens to me that the girl asks on the first date: “What are you looking for“? I am struggling with answering that question because what I am looking for depends on how the connection with the girl evolves. In other words, with some girl, I would like to have fun or sex. But I am also looking for “the one“, so I am quite open to everything, depending on how the connection with the girl goes on. How would you in general respond to this question? (27:32) The shit tests I’m getting are quite ambiguous. I have to ask the girls to repeat what they said and it takes me a while to even hazard a guess as to what the insulting undertone is. Even listening to the audio replays, I can’t understand them. I’m referring to conversations in my native language. (29:27) Hi Todd, This is my first live call. I’m 20 and starting out on nightgame. I really want to know how you would ideally want us to go through the course to learn the skill of verbal game? I could go through and watch all videos in Weeks 2 and 3 and hear about each type of attraction but how would I actually go about learning each of these techniques so they became second nature? (33:49) What is your physical escalation stack? I like elbow touch - hand on the shoulder - touch or hold her hand, but when I go for a hug, some girls resist that, even if I did the “You have a hair in your face“ (in one case). (37:49) I keep wanting to ask you, but I always forget - are you watching the World Chess Championship? (39:32) If a girl gives tacit approval to my cocky frame, say she laughs or looks at her friend in amusement. Is that tantamount to her accepting and going with the frame, or should I act like the frame is accepted, but just not be obnoxious and take it for granted? Like she accepted the frame, but to a lesser degree - the same as her actions would suggest? (42:48) The girl wants to do a video call every night. How to slow down? (44:37) Might be a silly question, but I smile in set a lot. Not in an uncalibrated way, mainly in response to her smiling, if I’m not being polite at the beginning of the set. Is this a bad thing? (46:50) ** is posting old videos of you. (47:39) Where are the missions? (48:21) I feel a bit less motivated for game now as for a few weeks. I have been in a sexual relationship with a girl. It’s nice, but I guess it makes me lazy to approach others. Should I still practice game as I did before? (51:11) But how do you want to work on each week? I was not able to find exercises. (52:02) Follow up on shit test question: girls tell me “We prefer UFC fighters“ (in response to my opener about chess) I answer, but to the friend “Before you guys compare me to your sexual fantasy, can you maybe tell me your names? Think we’re really hurrying things here.“ My target goes “You weren’t hurrying when you talked me up“. I ask her to elaborate and she rejects me. I tried my best for 1-2 more minutes, but I couldn’t get anything. (56:12) Do you get one on one coaching calls with the verbal game academy too? (57:12) Only a few of my openers are really strong and high percentage - situational, observational, semi-direct, and push-pull openers. The others are extremely hit-or-miss. I know you said we shouldn’t be One Trick Ponies, so should I be improving the other opener types or just zeroing on my strengths?
