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(0:18) Lecture topic (0:58) Is it too late to submit a screenshot? (2:58) First student text review (3:10) Lecture/Explanation (21:14) Note on future student text reviews (21:40) Second student text review (21:45) Lecture/Explanation (26:30) Hook up with three girls in three days this week. (26:40) Seems like asking me where absolute extreme level compliance asking her to text you like that? (27:10) I suppose I think the rule must be that you don’t talk about yourself unless she asks you. (27:25) I think it’s better to practice tease and qualify and not as a hard-fast rule. (28:17) So let’s kind of just say, have you given up on our adventures if she flakes in some, in some cases? (28:40) Have you given up on our adventures? (28:42) Should you use it as your go-to for all flaking? (29:27) You said calling is more entitled I never thought of it like that. (30:08) Someone says you have text to send heavily edited, you email it. (30:48) What’s your idea about making girls switch between differences? IM platforms? (31:49) So how often should you text a girl when you first get her number? (32:10) Her number might turn flaky if their responses left too long an answer. (33:19) I called the girl who gave me her number, she answered We talked. But then she said we should arrange a date via text. (34:06) What are conventional texts to revive a conversation before using the Hail Mary text like a dear diary and value into the void? (36:32) What can you say about this message to a girl who gave me her number and we talked once on the phone? Hi, I hope your abs don’t miss the gym too much. How was your weekend mine was hectic now recovering? (37:15) The girl actually flaked on me on the first day, and when she’s not trying to call people in the 20s. You’re not calling more somehow I got the first date. That’s why I didn’t call her after the second flake. (37:58) I like this format and will submit some next time (38:11) Yes, this format is awesome, there was so much information from only 2 interactions. (38:18) I like the format. Just need about two weeks’ notice ahead. (38:32) I really liked the format today, I have some texts to send in for the next call. The email is todd@toddvdating, right? (38:45) When getting a number online, I text my number first. And then what’s hers? Can I do a similar tactic in daygame? (39:26) How often do you see it when a good quote good number goes quiet and then responds later on? Because it mostly the girl’s life getting in the way? (40:05) Lately, I’m getting numbers from Online Dating that are 30 minutes away, I’m worried about looking needy by driving that far. But having trouble getting girls to commit to traveling themselves. (46:09) If people like the texting idea, that’s good. How about giving a business card? (46:42) In response to the first person who sent that first text. (47:02) New format suggestions (48:15) I am so interested in the new texting content. (48:29) 2.5 less often than in her photos. (48:50) What is this fascination with hot girls? Looks isn’t all in bed. (49:26) Is it a problem to call on Saturday to set a date (for whenever)? (49:52) Why is asking the girl to text you a problem? If I meet a girl and have a solid interaction, should I be putting her number on my phone, or can I put my number on her phone as well? Can I not trust that she will reach out to me if I save my number on her phone? (51:27) I thought I wanted smart girls with shared values for deep conversations. But I found from more dating experience that I actually care most about hotness and playfulness. (54:19) In the case I mentioned. we met in the gym. She gave me her number. I called her 8 days ago on a Friday. and she generally agreed to meet up next Saturday. Monday evening this week I sent her that text about the abs/gym and how was her weekend? She did not answer. As I did not want to look needy, I no longer followed up on the idea to go out on Saturday (i.e. today). What I should I do from now on to get a date? (55:18) Todd’s New Texting Principles (Lecture) (57:23) First checklist point - Can she respond to this (... without unreasonable effort)? (1:00:05) Second checklist point - If she doesn’t respond to this, will I be totally sunk? (1:01:44) Third checklist point - Is this potentially worse than the obvious text? (not getting too clever for your own good) (1:04:09) Fourth checklist point - Is this unnecessarily confusing? (1:06:06) Is it better to send short texts than long ones in general? (1:06:29) Fifth checklist point - Would I text this if I was really sure she liked me? (1:07:20) Sixth checklist point - If this “works“ will I even benefit from it? I.e. is there a point (1:09:30) Checklist manifesto applied to texting (1:09:55) Texting Bill of Rights (1:10:42) Texting Exercise (1:12:24) First Texting Exercise (1:13:
