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Date: 01/05/22 (0:53) 3 Concepts in terms of Relationships (19:19) A certain former colleague of yours was talking about boundaries in a relationship. How if the girl refused sex because of a “headache“, he’d go “But you wouldn’t have a headache for Justin Timberlake, right?“ So if the girl doesn’t see him as that high value, it’s a waste of time and they should break up. And that’s exactly what he’d push for at that juncture. What do you think about being so harsh with boundaries? (29:10) The girl I have regularly sex with does not want me to have other girls. However, I regularly approach other girls and also am open to having sex with them. In the long term, do you think it is important to “negotiate the relationship“ and be transparent about my desires and practices? Or just hide the truth from the girl, to protect her from sorrow or risk break-up. (35:30) At what point should guys start negotiating the terms of an open relationship? And how to introduce the idea to the girl? (38:33) I have doubts I’m capable of offering proper value to the caliber of girls I’m into. I end up hesitating when I trigger attraction with models, celebrities, and the like (which I’m getting literally every session). I forget proper sequencing, acknowledging her friends, and playing the game seriously for an outcome. Would you recommend I better understand my own potential sources of value as well as my UVP from the youtube video. Any mindset, fixes, or anything else? (40:22) Do you see it happen often where a girl negotiates for a monogamous relationship and cheats soon after that (before you’ve even had the chance to lose your value)? (44:22) Recording for 12/26 webinar is missing, can you post it? (44:52) Will you make an updated version of the relationship manifesto? (45:50) How to deal with the attention-seeking girlfriend needs constant validation? How to give her enough without falling into her frame to become a pushover. (50:25) When do girls ask about my ex and why we went separate ways, how to respond well? (54:39) What is your view on one-way open relationships? (56:47) What do I do with a girl that has gone cold? We’ve been texting for 5 months and going out, The last two times I asked to go out about a month ago, she flaked but said she was sorry. She went cold for a few days but started texting again when she left for a 10-day road trip back home across the country. We texted every day and she was sending pics and videos and I think everything is good again. When she gets back, she sort of gets cold again, we text a little. She doesn’t text happy new year, so I text the next day to wish her a happy New year. We had a little small talk text, then the thread ended. I haven’t texted her for 4 days. Should I keep on the text blackout? What should I do next? (1:00:01) Do you feel or felt jealousy in your open relationships? How do you deal with it? (1:04:45) Where can I can the relationship manifesto? Study Materials on Lover vs provider mindset (1:05:01) What are some of your best ideas when it comes to learning games on my own every week? As far as approaching/ holding myself accountable and enjoying myself? (1:06:38) Yes, I’ve slept with her 6 times, and then she’s gone cold. (1:07:23) Just keep the open relationship vague unless it’s brought up explicitly? (1:07:42) It has to do with finances and lifestyle. The girls are oftentimes really really well-traveled (the polar opposite of me), they are comfortable and at home around high-value people and in high-end venues. They live in neighborhoods I couldn’t afford. Sometimes the context of the initial approach is I’m at a very expensive restaurant buying water (thinking I can afford a stack for the same price) and then I go and spark massive attraction with a perfect 10. But the 10 is a regular at these kinds of places, to the point she maybe couldn’t conceive of anything else. It feels incongruent and dishonest of me to game these girls. Do you disagree with this outlook of mine? (1:10:20) I just want a few causal relationships, eventually developing into a solid long-term monogamous relationship. I don’t really consider it open relationship to be the end goal, just part of the journey. How to convey that to the girl properly, if the explanation is needed? (1:11:38) When the girl tried to bluff breaking up, overreacting, just to see my response. How to hold my frame? (1:12:39) For full disclosure purposes, you don’t like to rub it in the girl’s face on the initial pull you’re seeing other girls, but if they bring it up in a genuine way later on in the relationship, then you disclose what the deal is to them? (
