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Date: 01/29/22 (2:22) Presentation (Dumbest Ways Guys Lose Value) (2:42) First, The Basics (3:01) Not Even Showing Up on Gameday (3:12) Supplication (6:53) Todd, if you want to come back to 2x questions and answers until you flesh out these lectures’ content, I wouldn’t mind that. (8:36) Leveling Style (Meaning Fashion) (14:22) Voluntarily Adopting a Chasing Frame (17:18) Blunders (17:25) UDI (Unnecessary Display of Incompetence) (21:37) Reframing against one’s self (28:52) Snatching Defeat from the Jaws of Victory (34:20) One foot on The Gas One on The Brake (39:50) Sticking Points on Many Levels (40:39) Lack of Balls/Closing Instinct (52:11) Can you elaborate more about the “high value begging “, and why we often do that? (55:41) A couple of dates lately where the girls just keep things platonic. Feels like a premise line has to almost come out of nowhere which I’m conscious might not be a good game. (57:32) How to know if you have a high absolute value or relative value in set? What is the advantage of having either or? (59:13) Can you still be a nice guy while having high value? They seem contradictory. (1:02:05) Do you have any AMOG tactics or mindsets when in an AMOG situation? Other than being less reactive and trying to hold the girls’ attention. (1:05:50) I normally wear a sweater (maybe a white shirt underneath) or otherwise a clean blouse, no logos or words, with a coat on top, modern dark-ish jeans and maybe some sneakers. What do you think about this “style“, if you can call it that? (1:08:37) How do I tell a friend these facts? My friend wants to get good with girls but is very resistant to changing his style. (Shorts and Tshirt boring bland). (1:10:18) How do you always maintain a high value frame? Or how do you change completely one’s perspective to reach this high value mentality? (1:14:14) Regarding having a high value mindset, which methods work better? You mentioned two approaches, neuro synthesis, and the top-down approach. (1:15:38) Any practical tips to let go of your low value identity? I often hold onto it because anything other than that feels incongruent to me. (1:18:40) How do I maintain a high value frame specifically on dates? (1:19:59) A lot of painful stories today, painful in that they are so relatable. But can you talk about the benefits of learning game to the level you have? Like, what is your sex and dating life nowadays? Show us the light at the end of the tunnel, master. (1:23:50) I’ve been in a very similar situation hot 18-year-old 9 college girl making out with me, touching my dick in a college park, and didn’t have anywhere to pull so nothing happened. (1:24:46) Are you gonna take the questions from the chat as well? (1:25:05) I’ve had a long dry spell, how do I keep my sexual view of my ability to pull a girl home when in reality it’s been so long? My dates feel pointless because I have nowhere to pull her home. (1:27:17) How to know if the girl views you as a lover or provider? Sometimes I misread the situation and thought she viewed me as a lover (which meant I had more power in the relationship and she’d be more open to having threesomes) but then she says things as she sees me as boyfriend material. (1:29:50) Can you talk about losing your value in the context of a relationship? Like, obviously the occasional “value slip up“ is not likely to blow up your relationship, but maybe when they compound each mistake becomes more meaningful, etc. (1:31:33) We all know how girls use shit tests to find out information about you. Would it be also advantageous to also shit test the girl to find out information about her? (i.e whether or not she’s worth investing time and energy into, etc.) (1:32:52) Follow up on style: I’d like to just look presentable. I’ve been allowed in exclusive bars and restaurants wearing an outfit worse than what I’ve described below. Am I still leveling myself if I’m basically dressing maybe a little edgy (something ever so slightly different from the norm)? (1:33:18) Todd have you ever heard of the late great comedian Patrice O’Neal. If so what’s your take on his philosophy with women? (1:34:00) Are there some rough prices on upgrading our mentoring package to include more regular 1-2-1 coaching calls? (1:35:17) Should you get rid of any thought of doubting whether or not you’re worthy enough to escalate? I am asking because earlier you said girls don’t want to be escalated on by “unworthy“ guys. (1:36:59) Player family man I like that winning on both levels I’m trying to achieve that myself. (1:37:28) Sometimes when I try to qualify/evaluate the girl, some girls feel too prideful to qualify, is it because I didn’t have enough value in that situation?
