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(0:45) What are the most rewarding kinds of relationships? Where you would have fun but also grow and learn a lot about relationships and girls? (6:48) Do you think having a girlfriend made it easier or harder for you to get women in general? (10:37) Ideally, I want my girlfriend to only sleep with me even if I’m seeing other girls. Do you think it’s very unlikely a girl would agree to such terms? (13:38) How do you handle arguments in terms of frame control? (20:58) Is there any way to turn a “normal“ monogamous relationship into one where your partner is ok with you having threesomes with her or is this a blueprint thing? (24:02) How to prevent your girlfriend from being too complacent and make her value your time when you’re living with her or seeing her often? (26:35) Why would girls often object to having threesomes and open relationships with their boyfriends but don’t feel the same when doing it with a playerish guy? (30:52) In your opinion, is there any good reason why a guy should consider taking a girlfriend back after she cheated on him? (36:53) People often say communication in relationships is key - is this true, and if so, how do people often misinterpret that? (38:16) (Live follow-up question) Can you elaborate on what you just said - that verbally going over everything is bad? (40:26) In your opinion what makes a relationship so solid that she wouldn’t consider cheating on you even with higher-value guys? (43:00) In your opinion, what are the advantages of being in a relationship where the girl sees you as a provider? Why not just be a “lover“ as it’s more fun? (46:30) How do not be always in fear of your girlfriend cheating on you in your absence, especially if you have no way of knowing? (Which is why I prefer friends with benefits) (50:34) You said you can be very compelling in a relationship. I think the context you gave for that was outside of the absolute value-related things you can offer. So what are some reasons for that in your judgment? (53:18) In terms of lifestyle, I prefer high freedom in relationships. Something totally open where I can be gone traveling most of the time. But in terms of the connection when we’re together, I prefer if she’s really into me (kinda in love with me) and holds her lovingly, gazing into her eyes, maybe telling her I love her. So I like the passion and lovey-doveyness of it all in a relationship but friends with benefits-like freedom. Is this massively incongruent? I’ve actually been achieving it with a few girls lately but I worry that 1. it’s not sustainable or 2. it may end up hurting the girls. Any tips? (55:47) This has been sort of addressed but can you speak more to reframing an open relationship as a positive for both parties? I ask because I’ve noticed a pattern of meeting women, agreeing to an open relationship after some time so I continue to game, and then being told later they have no interest in seeing other guys, i.e. they no longer value the relationship being open. And this makes them feel insecure and eventually ends the relationship. (58:30) I don’t understand what the thing is with guys worrying about cheating. How often do you people get girls in relationships in your own game actively studying and practicing this thing? Not saying anything about the boyfriend’s value even. (59:11) How do you manage multiple relationships and what frame do you set? (59:33) I’d eat dog meat for the experience. (1:00:25) Todd, your internet is not doing hot right now. (1:03:39) You said seeing a girl once every six months is probably not enough to sustain the relationship where she’s kind of in love with me, etc. Do you have experience with long-distance open relationships and that kind of passion/connection? How often have you tried to visit their city to sustain it? (1:05:18) The relationship manifesto was the first video of yours I clicked as a wee babe. (1:05:33) I just mean if the girl is in a relationship in a set of mine (for real) I still have to do a good game or maybe even a slightly better game to get anywhere with her. (1:06:40) Really valuable insight about long-distance open relationships. Thanks, Todd! Hard to find advice that applies specifically to that scenario. (1:07:20) (Live follow-up question) I was thinking about how some guys in a relationship just by virtue of caring for their girlfriend they can get a lot farther than some playerish guys. Like they would wanna take care of her and they would wanna add value to her. So that’s what I wanted to ask you about. (1:09:29) (Live follow-up question) You talked about interviewing for the job and the fact you can improve that by virtue of the learning game. So my question to you is, how can you learn to be a better boyfriend? (1:20:20) If it’s not good to talk about relationships in a relationship, how do you talk about it during daygame? Something like projecting a
