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Date: 11/05/21 (3:04) How to reconcile between “assuming value/attraction“ and “demonstrating value/creating attraction“ . These are two different mindsets that seem to contradict. (5:07) OPENC model is good for a hookup, but I can’t find a genuine connection. Many girls bounce after sex. How to build a genuine connection for LTR? (7:58) What’s the best way to re-attract a girl you were already sleeping with but stopped making you her priority and became less invested? (9:54) If you were to start from intermediate and go up to world-class at dating, what would you do, how would this process look, what would be key advice? (14:53) List of things I can do in the initial interaction so it’s not “expected“ from me to be committed to her? I just wanna be a player & be “accepted“ for that. (17:48) What’s the best way to find out what “works“ or “doesn’t work“ for me personally in game? For example, I stop doing something if I get rejected 10 times for it. (20:38) Threesome pull with a girlfriend: most of the time girls freak out just before sex and leave, how to prevent it, and how to be more consistent with pulling with a girlfriend? (22:44) Advance standpoint on if you are in a house with the girl, when you should go for close on the first date, and when you shouldn’t (except bad logistic situations)? (25:45) For HOT girls on Tinder (imagine slender, younger, tattoo sleeves, “bad girl“) how to prevent or keep things going after blasé short responses? (28:13) How you should game when you’re in an open relationship and want to be very good at game but don’t want other deep relations, especially girls that want relation? (29:09) I think the forum could be a good place to submit questions? (29:53) How should you go about beginning to start the process of evaluating the girl? Any recommendations for how to practice this skill? (32:12) Hey Todd, I’m in this situation now in game where I get over-reactive to everything that does not go the way I expected in game example I approach a girl and it does not go well, or a girl stop responding to my text or a flake, this makes me feel down for the rest of that day, what should I do to get out of this situation? (36:34) Hi Todd! I recently noticed that I started doing some self-monitoring while talking to the girl. I got the impression that she can sense it and it has a negative impact on my game. What do you recommend to solve this issue? (40:47) Currently battling covid and while the worst of it is over, I don’t want to risk infecting the girls I’m approaching. Do you agree it’s ok for me to postpone the missions in the verbal game academy until I know for sure this thing is handled? (41:52) Hey Todd, what to do when going on a date and everything seems going well but when taking the girl home LMR happens, what to do when LMR happens? (42:56) How to convey that you’re non-judgemental about her sexual past, but not come off like a complete cuck? I want her to be sexually open with me, but not create a frame where it’s ok if she’s flirting with guys left and right. (45:23) Hey Todd, I set a goal to increase my social circle, what is the way to make new high-value friends? How does it work? (48:57) Any strategies on how to better deliver push-pull lines, disqualify and get her to chase without being reaction seeking? (50:24) How to maintain consistency with your action in the same places without it being weird when seeing familiar faces a lot of time, like where you live, habitual coffee shops, etc? Any strategy for these places you’re going to repeat, like what if you see a girl you have dated and she sees you talking to girls again, or seeing girls that rejected you, etc.? (53:17) I’m completely at the mercy of the weather when it comes to whether I get to go out and game or not. What are some venues where I can consistently go out and meet hot girls who aren’t necessarily working but are just hanging out? (56:32) How do you know what the limit of pushing away is? I don’t want to really push her away? (1:00:11) What can you do “verbally“ during the initial interaction, so I can be seen more as a hookup/friend with benefits guy? (1:01:03) Hey Todd, is it possible to say that it is easier to game and get more girls that are below 9s and 10s? (1:02:41) Is there any way to play your or how you frame yourself or what you’re doing in the area in a way that if other girls you closed see you it’s something positive or even attractive, but not negative like you’re a player or you’re doing the same than her with every girl?
