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Date: 12/18/21 (0:06) Announcement (6:56) Are there any more of your coaches who will get on the forum again like JP or Matt? (8:56) Any tips on how to be grounded in your own reality when talking to girls in nightclubs? (17:06) In a previous question & answer, you said social proof and preselection are “indicators of value“ not “proof of value“. What are examples of proof of value? (22:21) Who should be the one to say “I love you“ first the man or the woman. If she´s reacting positively and sex is going well, is it ok to say it first? (25:53) How to maximize your value if you want to get more one-night stands and friends with benefits and not be viewed as a potential boyfriend? Like should I work on getting more money, getting in shape, etc.? (27:49) Is it a good idea to call out or tease a girl if she’s being prudish or says things like “I’m not that kind of girl“, If not how to get her out of that state? (30:31) What is an example of good texting for a long-distance relationship, we already had sex and she’s reacting positively (e.g. How are you? What cool things are you up to? Prevent ping values sent). (32:58) What’s the best way to approach a group of two with a wingman at night in a bar? If I solo the approach and my wingman “randomly“ comes after, it feels too gamey. (37:00) Do you prefer sending voice messages rather than texts when having a long-distance relationship? (38:41) What do you think about PUAs saying you should always wait for her to make the move to have a serious relationship to make sure you show less interest than her? (39:21) I’m regularly meeting hot girls when I’m out, but I don’t feel like I’m undergoing any personality level changes or becoming inherently more high value. How to undergo these changes in my character? (43:46) Coming from a rich family and living a frugal lifestyle. How do showcase these in a high-value way? Without sounding it like bragging or landing in a provider frame. (49:08) Not sure if this question is better to ask on the forum, but I’ll try here. What do you think about this Tinder bio? (52:40) Way back you recommended going to bars and restaurants specifically to practice game and, if I want, I could not buy drinks and food. How exactly to avoid being pressured into buying these things? What do you do exactly in the venue and how do you interact with the staff? (53:53) Any tips on how to not judge yourself in set when you realized you’ve made mistakes in game? Especially if it’s reinforced by the girl’s negative reactions. (55:39) Can you give some reasonable time ranges on a date? For example, from drinks at the bar, to back at my place, to sex. (59:10) Had some reservations about groups lately particularly on the dance floor. Any pointers on what sort of openers/frames/ways to isolate might be best for training wheels right now? (1:02:18) When a girl is sending you for example a view of where she is. Do you tease her sexually to imagine what it would be to be there together? Tease her or give an interesting opinion? What is the best way to react to her updates on Instagram? A long-distance relationship had sex already and just kept in touch on Instagram while she returns in a few months. (1:06:26) What does it mean when a girl asks if she can bring a friend when you invite her out, is that a bad plan, and should you turn it down? (1:10:06) How to answer when the girl asks “how many girls have you slept with?“ and “how many girls are you dating right now?“ (1:12:07) Having a player reputation with my employees. Do you think it’s bad? Do you have any experience with that? (1:12:55) In the simplest terms, how would you define a lover frame and provider frame? So I can know which frame I am in when I interact with girls. (1:14:09) Is it ok to build narrative and role-plays when texting? Like if she sends me an image of a beach I would say “run to the beach naked I am behind a rock waiting for you“ and continue the story. (1:15:09) Todd, what’s the best way for me to time manage game stuff especially when I have a super busy 9-5 and also want to start my own business? Whenever I think about going out to a club or daygame, I feel that this is not the best use of my time. But I sometimes feel that developing my social skills is the most important thing because I am not going to get this time back. (1:16:54) I tried the narrative mission from Verbal Game Academy, but I ended up not neglecting Premise and Evaluation (more so evaluation than premise). Made the girls not want to connect, even on a good open. Clearly, narrative is strictly a “Later game“ phase. (1:39:38) Lecture
